**note this is advice not for me**
I found out that my girlfriend (4yrs) and mother of my 19mo daughter is planning to leave me. And go back to cleveland from lexington KY, where we are now. i found a whole folder from Ryan homes with floor plans and everything. she already has the property picked out to build on! shes in an employment contract that holds her here untill the end of the school year (shes a teacher). Ive known since a week before new years. (merry christmas to me) But i dont know how much longer i can keep it to myself. Should i wait to see what/if she tells me? Should i admit i know? Should i just leave her b4 she leaves me? I just don't know what to do. any advice will be appreciated.
2007-03-02 04:36:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's the mother of your child right? why would she wait so long to tell you? she might not tell you, ask her. why beat around the bush? ask what her planes are? you have a kid together you have the right to know, sounds like things are not going so well between the two of you right now, if you plane on staying where you are now wouldn't you want to see your child? these are things you could be talking about or if needed getting legal advice if it went that far. just a thought.
2007-03-02 04:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her you know and talk it over. While its never easy to accept the end of a relationship, if that is the case you both owe it to each other to handle the situation openly and with respect.
There is a lot that has to be sorted out and agreed to when/if this happens so dont put this off.
2007-03-02 12:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by NWK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing in this situation I would consult her about it. Ask her whats going on and what she is planning to do for her 19 month old daughter. Try to convice her to stay but you cant force her because that would just make her stay away that much more and longer.
2007-03-02 12:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kidda complicate but do what you feel it the right thing to do, your heart would lead the way,
2007-03-02 12:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sunrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her, there are plenty of better women out there for you.
2007-03-02 12:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait to see if she tells you
2007-03-02 12:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by calisrfgrl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋