My boyfriend and I live together. We recently got some pot. I smoke minimally when I do, just to relax. He has been smoking it without me when I'm not around. I get him to admit it by joking. However, sometimes I can't tell if he is, when I ask he says no. I obviously can tell he is, but I second guess it. Don't know why he won't tell me he's smoking and let me join......after 1.5 year together, this is the first time we have been in this situation, the smoking is recent. He hasn't used anything during the time we're together that I know of, but we have spent a lot of time together. Here's the question: how can I get him to tell my WHY he's doing this? He's playing games to start by making it a secret......is this addiction or him just being a jerk?
2007-03-02 04:36:30 · 7 answers · asked by susan 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
tell him to stop bogarting the joint. to share is fair.
2007-03-02 04:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by stormy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop concerning yourself with his behavior and concern yourself with what you are doing. The only way to change someone is to change yourself first. You are looking at the beginning of an addiction for both of you.
2007-03-02 04:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by KATHY A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well..if the lies are already starting..I'd hit the road, myself, and not look back. You cannot be with someone you do not trust...it just doesn't work...if he's being "secretive" about this, makes you wonder what else he's keeping from you...
2007-03-02 04:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Toots 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just joking, but if he's addicted to weed then wow what a douche.
2007-03-02 04:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by shazamshawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out of that relationship. Two potheads don't belong together. It is totally dysfunctional, and you are playing with disaster.
2007-03-02 04:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lose the zero get with a hero sweetie
2007-03-02 04:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by JAMES THE PUNISHER 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look at his eyes. if his pupils are dialated, and his eyelids halfway shut, there ya go. its like when someone is drunk, and you look at their pupils, the pupils vibrate, shake.
2007-03-02 04:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes_0613 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋