my boyfriend is always doing something. not everyone knows about him in my school. but girls tell me what he says to them. and i dont want to confront him about it because i dont want him to think im accusing him so what do i do
2007-03-02 04:21:07 · 13 answers · asked by jordan r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't try to accuse him. ask him if he said anything inapropriate to those girls. let him answer your question and leave it at that. But listen to yourself and listen to your instincts. Don't just take his word for it. Try to observe what he does. but try to look for something that answers your question. but filter out anything else you see other than what you want to kno or whats really bad. like hes going out to a party and hes buying drugs from his friends. or he's cheating on you. or he beats up a young and weaker person.
those are my suggestions, what i really suggest is that you listen to yourself.
2007-03-02 04:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are these girls trustworthy, or do they just want to get him in trouble! I guarantee if you believe them one of them will be going out with him by next week! Or just come right out and ask him. Your not accusing him, just asking( i'm sure you'll know if he's lying). Good Luck
2007-03-02 04:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa T (Stop BSL) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is saying and doing things that make you uncomfortable in your relationship with him; you need to either discuss it with him or get out of the relationship and find a new boyfriend. It is that clean cut and clear.
2007-03-02 04:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Darlin1_66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. He is up to no good if he is talking to girls.
2007-03-02 04:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you do not appreciate his mouth...yes, that is confronting him. If you want it to stop,do it. Otherwise....DUMP HIM.He is fishing for a bite to either cheat on you or replace you.
2007-03-02 04:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't accuse him, just tell him " hey these girls were talking **** about you" and tell him what they said, and if he's kind of surprised or something, then you'll know if it's true.
2007-03-02 04:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say that someone else told you. it is the truth after all. tell him you arent accusing him but you ARE wondering if it is true.
2007-03-02 04:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to accuse him if u dont it will cause problems in ya relationships
2007-03-02 04:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dolores B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have guys tell him what you are (and will start) saying to them. And for gods sake, make if freaky.
2007-03-02 04:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of "something" do you mean? What does he say to girls?
2007-03-02 04:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by VirtualElvis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋