I have a boyfriend,and we were very happy that we have each other.everything is good with between untill he started working the double shift and he started actibg diffrently yo me ever since,he consantly ignores my emails,and he even said that i only have few mintues to talk to him,so i got fedup with him and i decided to let him stick to his job,then i started talking to a friend of mine who lives like across the town then i kind of grew found of this friend of mine and for some reason i couldn't get him off my mind,i enjoy talking to him alot,he make my day a whole lot better,but then when each time i talk to him,he only reminds me of my boyfriend,and how much i miss him,even though my feelings towords my boyfriend is not strong anymore but i cant seem to let him go,each time i try telling him that i want a break up,i end up chicken out,and to make matter more worst,i couldn't bring to tell my friend that i have a boyfriend,because i don't to loose him too.so what should i do now?
2007-03-02 04:15:38 · 6 answers · asked by lexus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you said im the worst kind of person,true but after all the bad times i have been true with him,i am worthless?tell me this,what kind of boyfriend picks television over his girlfriend?as far as my memory serves me right,the telly was not there to hear his cry,hear his complains,listen to his thoughts,he spends even more time with his best friend and it happened to be a girl,
2007-03-02 04:46:34 · update #1
The fact that he ignores your emails is not surprising at all. You can't spell and your grammar is akin to that of a young child.
Your boyfriend probably left you months ago and you simply hadn't noticed.
2007-03-02 04:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Diarmid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a decision to make before you lose both guys. Your boyfriend deserves to be let go* if you're having feelings for another guy. You need to say it's not working out..and move on freely without guilt*
As for your new friend..I hope he's worth it..because if you break it off with your boyfriend, and later find out this new friend of yours isn't who you really thought he was...again..you'll lose both of them. And if your new friend finds out you have had a boyfriend all this time, then broke up with him to be with this new friend..He may leave you anyways because you had lied to him..and were involved with someone else while he thought you were devoting your time and energy into him.
GOODLUCK*
2007-03-02 04:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, similar cases arrive to many ppl and also happenned to me. no time for you+no replies to emails = go away. it is very probable that he is into another relationship. by staying between 2 guys, you will lose both. i would advise you to stop being chicken with your bf:dont just ask explanations cos he will not say the truth. tell him that either he finds time for you or you brake up. otherwise just start dating the new friend and never look back. you are lucky to have found someone new in such good timing.
2007-03-02 04:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by zeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since your boyfriend isnt there to be, well, your boyfriend, your using your friend to take his place. it started out just hypothetically and now its turning real. obviously the relationship with your boyfriend has deteriorated, and you seem to be decided to end the relationship. i think you should do what makes you happy. if your boyfriend doesnt make you happy anymore, then i think its time to be with the person that makes you content (to use another word) hope you make the right decision.
2007-03-02 04:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide.
Currently you are cheating on your boyfriend and stringing along another guy.
You are the worse type of girl, indecisive and untrustworthy.
They both deserve better than you.
2007-03-02 04:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time to get over someone, right now play it cool with both guys, you need to time to sort things out in your mind
2007-03-02 04:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋