2007-03-02 03:58:45 · 24 answers · asked by rosepassions 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely!! They're the best.
2007-03-02 04:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Gunner For Life! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
Cause someone will fall for the other and that is not what it purposely meant for.
Then it's going to get to the point that they will want you right then and there and that is not good cause they will feel they own you.
I think you should get man and be with him. Friends with benefits really isn't good. Trust me i went there once and i ended up getting hurt.. I don't know what Lil Jon and Usher and e'm were thinking with the song. I like it don't get me wrong but it's not heathy for a woman.
Keep yo head up shorty
2007-03-02 12:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends....
I met this girl 2 years ago (we are over 50) and we have fun together..... we like trips and shows but don't "love" each other we Like each other but there isn't a bond.... (hard to explain) but we still have needs so ever so often she spends the night, rather that go out and find strange and worry about STD's we stay together.....
It is really nice because we both don't feel the need to live together but we have someone to hang with or need to talk we are there for each other.
2007-03-02 12:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the situation. If you got a man or woman, u shouldn't have friends with benefits only because that can ruin the relationship. If you don't have anybody, but there are many ppl who want you, then sure it's good to have friends with benefits...IT ALL DEPENDS ON SITUATION!
2007-03-02 12:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't do it because emotions will ALWAYS get involved. Either it will be u or the guy you're messing with. In theory friends w/benefits sounds good, but in reality it BLOWS.
2007-03-02 12:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by jacarig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, it's not mentally healthy for you. You should stay a virgin, save yourself until you get married. Whoever is asking you to be friends with benefits will just be using you for sex. You don't want any guys using you, period. You should focus more on your education rather than going out there & risking yourself with STD's.
2007-03-02 12:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It usually works for a short while, then feelings get involved. Someone is bound to get hurt, feel used and then the anger sets in usually it's the woman.
2007-03-02 12:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you and the friend.
Some people handle it well, some don't.
There is always the risk of one of the people falling in love with the other.
2007-03-02 12:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no no no...to many emotions get involved, no matter how much you tell your self your not going to fall for the person. Somone ends up having more than friends feelings.
2007-03-02 12:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Katers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on the people. if you get attached easily its not recommended and make sure the person your involved with isn't either. basically both people have to at all times be on the same page about whats going on
2007-03-02 12:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by lola1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
only if you want to take a chance that you are not the only one giving and receiving the benefits. Ever hear of STD's and unwanted pregnancy?
2007-03-02 12:02:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋