Wat shall i do, i loved him for 4 years.
2007-03-02 03:55:20 · 30 answers · asked by ZARA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about it..it does not make sense,does it?
I mean..I always say that age is never an issue but in this case I will have to change my mind...
When you turn 18 he is 55....when you are in your mid twenties he is retired!!!!!
And...chances are you would be a widow before your 40th birthday!!!
2007-03-02 04:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember your only 14 hes 50 hes old enough to be your grandad don't go there try and forget him and find friends your own age how can you say you have loved him for 4 years you were only 10 then it seems you are crying out for a bit of company but both you and him can get in serious trouble if anything was to happen he will end up in prison and you will end up in care sorry to sound hash but that's the facts best just look on at him as a teacher and that's all and try and enjoy your childhood if you feel lonely or need someone talk to you must have friends there that can help please think about this seriously what i have said as its the truth .
2007-03-02 04:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
righto little lady, you are 14 years old. I understand what you feel is very strong and intense, but I assure you, it is not love okay? At your age, your hormones are wacked out, and as women we are programmed to find one guy and stick with him(men are programmed different, but you'll learn that later), this teacher has been there during this process, and your tired teenage brain has fixated on him.
That's ok! It happened to us all, and none of us were actually in love with our teachers either!
Now, even if the feelings you had were real, which they ARE NOT, he would need locking up if he went near you, you are 14! And yes, you might be grown up woman shaped, but you aren't a grown up by far (I'm 27 and I'm still not quite there yet!) So relax, nothing is going to happen here, he is not going to be interested in you anyway, and if he was, he would be SICK, and in prison, and unemployable for the rest of his life.
The good thing is, you are going to get over this in a very short time, and i want you to make sure you have a good picture of this dude, so when you are older you can look at it and laugh your head off, because that is what you are going to do!
Any help? No? It's all true my friend, all true.
2007-03-02 04:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Hello, what you are going through is a crush/ your first Love. Your teacher is your world he helps you out pays attention to you where somewhere along your life others do not do this.
I know I have been where you are and falling in Love happens when you least expect it. I went through many girls when I was younger when it came to liking them a lot.
Find a nice guy your age but also honestly let God help you ok?
I still LOVE many of the people I have met along the way, including my Ex GF who is now married. Also DO NOT rush into a relationship, or get pregnant it will not be worth it later. BE a Kid and enjoy being one.
2007-03-02 04:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by craig_snow2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't worry. I am sure your teachers loves you very much as well (as a student) it's not love, its a crush. :) Unfortunately you have to get over it and find another guy your own age. It's sad, but I am sorry.
2007-03-03 19:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh bby dw bout it r u sure theres no fitties your age look a lil harder nd you mite find sum1 you need a distraction a bf probs but wat eva u do dont get ya teacher into ne trouble he could lose his job ...... i waz in da same situaton az u a couple of yrs ago but den i found sum1 my age but i didnt fink i would b able to get ova ma techer dat quickly but i did nd now i feel like a prat 4 even finking i liked him!!! gd luck lym x
2007-03-02 06:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by X_dnt b nasti _X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you love him, relationship way?
Im 14 and quite personally i dont know how someone could do that i wouldnt feel that way about any of my teachers.
Techer and Student relationships dont usualy work
2007-03-02 04:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by § gαввαηα § 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him, stop telling people and seduce him on the quiet. If you can persuade him nobody will find out, he might just go for it, but if he gets caught he's going down as a paedophile - which tends to put most people off.
Oh and getting your norks out never goes amiss.
2007-03-02 04:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
o thats not v good
i was like that but he wasnt 50 he was 30
id get over him before something happends
2007-03-02 04:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by devil at work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come back in 2 years if you still feel the same. seriously tho, you are 14 hun. I know it feels like you will feel this way forever but maybe you wont. Dont say anything to him.
2007-03-02 04:00:53 · answer #10 · answered by kitiara2009 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋