I've been seeing the same guy for 8 mos. We're just casually dating because he isn't ready for a committment. He has expressed to me that he will be seeing other women. I have, as of right now opted not to see other guys as of yet, but he keeps asking me if I'm seeing anybody & I tell him no, but he thinks that I'm lying.
He said that my action have changed because now I leave the house more. I told him that I get bored at home alone & I want to get out sometimes, he told me that I was a deceitful & try to cover it up by being extremely kind. I don't understand his actions. If he isn't ready to committ to me & has stated that he's going to see other people why is he so interested in whether or not I'm seeing somebody else? Any advice please. What can I do to get him to trust that I'm being honest & why is he so jealous?
2007-03-02 03:46:08 · 14 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kick him to the Cuuuurb! He's too clingy and questions you too much! You need someone that will let you have a freakin' life!
2007-03-02 03:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Maybe you need to let him be, obviously you are the type who can commit and he can't, all that is going to happen is that you are going to keep waiting for him while he is out there doing who knows what with other people, then come to you when there is no one else, or when he gets tired of f***in around outside, meanwhile you do nothing!!! Be smart and leave the player out of the game!!! You seem intelligent and someone who is caring and sensitive!! He needs to respect that you aren't seeing anyone else and maybe you need to find someone who does respect you! Calling you a liar is not cool!!! If he don't trust you now that you aren't serious what makes you think he will if you two EVER get serious! He likes what he has!!! Freedom and a friend with benefits!!!! Wake up!!!
2007-03-02 04:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u want him to trust u if he dont belive u dan dats him... y u wanna be with some 1 dat is seeing other people?? He cares in his own way, but dont u think u deserve better??Let him go, i think u should move on u need some 1 dats loves u an hes urs 4 sure.... no be with other people!!! GOOD LUCK
2007-03-02 04:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a user-get rid of him. He is allowed to see others and your not? That is crazy! Besides that you don't want to be with a jealous person he will make you miserable and never trust you and you will be forever trying to prove that you are faithful to him, it isn't worth it -there are much better men out there and I am sure you could do better
2007-03-02 03:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Urchin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey you need to get rid of him....if he is telling you that he is going to be seeing other women. what does he expect you to do sit at home and wait for him??? if your relationship with him is a see him every few days or weeks or something you can get out there and date guys you DONT need him...all your doing is casualty dating...its not serious and your NOT married...
so hon get rid of this guy...go out have fun and find somebody who wants to commit to a relationship and doesnt TRUST you and question your every move...
to me if i dont have TRUST in my relationship then im not happy...i know that you can do a lot better.
good luck :)
hope that helps
2007-03-02 03:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by christie. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ******** thats why, he wants someone to come home to basically wants his cake and eat it too. You are a doormat and you are being treated as such.
The reason why he's paranoid that you will do the same is because you choose to allow him to cheat on you.
If you stay you are silly, you so deserve someone else who will love you commit to you and not go out when he so chooses and keeps you as prisoner..
ditch him please before he traps you
2007-03-02 03:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Scatty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don know
sounds like the ship already sailed
run your playbook
cut loose
hang tight
stay outta sight
n go visit the doc
2007-03-02 03:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'a a man, he wants it all. Are you going to put up with it? He has no right to be jealeous while he's seeing other women.
2007-03-02 03:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by bestwomanberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump him, run far away, and never look back.
If you stay with this loser you're setting yourself up for several years of misery, before you finally get tired of it.
FP
2007-03-02 03:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like he is controlling and wants his cake and eat it too. My advise is to be careful because if he is like this now, it will only get worse.
2007-03-02 03:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Dianab 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋