Im 15 but in a pretty serious reltaionship with my boyfriend (16) like he gave me a really expensive promise ring and weve been dating a year and 7 months....[both lost our virginity to each other sorry if TMI but trying to explain] well i am also still sorta jealous over him talking to other girls because we broke up once when he met a new "friend" and dumped me for her. so i dont like when he meets new girls who seem interested in him...he tells me not to talk to about 4 guys he doesnt like me being friends with and so i dont. but when i try and ask him not to talk to a girl who i dont like he says i dont trust him and im controlling..i feel guilty because he has stopped talking to 2 girls for me but the other day he hugged one. i dont know if i should trust him anymore!
2007-03-02 03:44:52 · 4 answers · asked by Laney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is a choice. You get to choose whether you believe he is being true to you or not. Hugs don't make cheating...I hug lots of people and I don't cheat on my fiance. You will have much more influence over him if you trust him than if you don't. Just don't give him a reason to go anywhere else (don't be clingy or needy or controlling).
2007-03-02 03:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both young and are not really in love. Neither of you would have anything to do with members of the opposite sex if it was true love. Go out and enjoy your youth and sample different boys to see what you really like. Very few people marry the person they lost their virginity too. Your boyfriend obviously has other girls on his mind. You can't control other people if they don't want to be controlled, so him saying you're to controlling is his way of saying he's not gonna let you control him.
2007-03-02 11:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by truckinmann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you demand in a relationship, the worse off it will be in the long run. Anyone, will get tired of being told what to do (even you), you have to move past this. If you trust him, you have to believe in your heart that he only has eyes for you, regardless of what he does (within reason). If it meant to be, it will remain.
If I grew angry everytime my husband looked or chatted to other women, we wouldn't be together (seventeen years). I know in my heart, that he only has eyes for me and the interaction he has with other women means nothing.
2007-03-02 12:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too controlling and so is he. You two are made for each other. Go find a deserted island to live on.
2007-03-02 11:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋