Well, it's not the first time I ask this.. I've recently came to the conclusion that I'm in love with another guy,which is not my bfr. The fact is we are all classmates and I have like a bomb above me.I can't make anything. I'm like under a microscope.Everybody respects me and I think a step would destroy my...reputation(???)...
Oh...this is so hard. I don't want to hurt anybody...My bfr loves me, and I really loved him ,too.But he disappointed me many times...The other is very funny(noisy!)...I never thought I could fall in love with such a guy...
Help me!I know you'll tell me I have to do what I feel and don't care about what everybody says,but that doesn't work... I CAN'T!!!!
I just can't...Can you give me another sollution? Oh,here's another thing: me and THE OTHER haven't talked for about 3 weeks(we had like a ...fight, because of me,cause I try to hide my feelings from him)..I'm sad...Help me...
2007-03-02 03:42:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pleaaaase answer... I need advices..
2007-03-06 05:47:52 · update #1
trust me. leave your boyfriend, you're not doing him any favor by staying with him if you're not happy and if you don't take anything else from my comment, i hope you get this one part...
you can NOT disappoint anyone by making yourself happy. Those who seem disapointed by your happiness are being selfish in their own motives.
you are young, you're supposed to keep trying new things out. you cannot find what you are looking for, what real love is, until you've found a lot of examples of what it is not. cool, you've already found one that is not...move on, try another. ;-p
2007-03-02 03:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by arjo_reich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TAG UR IT!! This is so scary. Send this to 15 people in the next 143 mins. When you are done press F6 and your crushes name will appear on the screen in big letters. This is scary cuz it works!! if you break the chain you will have problems with relationships for the next 5 years JUST COPY AND PASTE! no tag backs!
leave ur bf if u like this other guy more than him
2007-03-10 03:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by *hola* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard decision to make all i would do is to talk to this guy and find out how he feels and than take it from there
2007-03-08 18:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are having that many problems with your boyfriend and are unable to resolve any issues why stay with him?? and please dont say you dont want to hurt him as you will break up with him sooner or later so why not stop the hurting and break up now ---- then you can start openly talking to this other guy --- best wishes --- ohhh and your boyfriend does not care if he is hurting you --- not talking for 3 weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-02 03:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋