I've been with my mexican boyfriend for little over a month and we are already talking about OUR kids, OUR wedding, OUR house, where WE want to live, and all that stuff. we don't think it's too soon because we know we'll be together .... I'll be 18 on the 12th and he'll be 17 in july. Is it normal for couples our age to do this?
2007-03-02 03:18:58 · 10 answers · asked by <3aDrUmMeR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going to college we plan to get married when he is 19.
2007-03-02 03:29:58 · update #1
South of the Mason-Dixon line, maybe. Hispanics prepare and think about family earlier than Caucasoids do. Its cultural.
2007-03-02 03:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think getting married that early could jeopardize your chances together in the future. Be careful its okay to be talking about this stuff but when it becomes a planned out thing it can hurt. good luck
2007-03-02 04:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol never too soon to talk about it! however it can go one of two ways either you start talking about marriage and such and the other runs a mile or you make plans and they don't work out! i say do it if you both feel the same about it! although you are both are fairly young it doesn't hurt that you are planning just don't be too disappointed if you brake up and he wasn't the one!!
2007-03-02 03:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by slimssis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until your about 24 to be talking about that stuff. Its normal but the reality is it will most likely fail or ruin your carreers or your college life. You haven't even been to the bars yet. But if your both not that into partying it will probably work better
2007-03-02 03:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are so young, and can't possibly know after a month that you will be together. This is all about infactuation at the moment. Give it time, and be realistic, don't get caught up in fairytale mentality.
2007-03-02 03:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very odd. A 17 year old guy thats thinking about kids? He must be insane.
2007-03-02 03:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just puppy love, at that age, you'll always think your going to be together forever, get your education, then talk about things like that
2007-03-02 03:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by sonya h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats a little soon. after only a month....
2007-03-02 03:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, it is too early.
2007-03-02 03:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by swirlz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not
2007-03-02 03:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by teddybearbigboy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋