My GF of a year does not like to see me more than once or maybe 2 times a week. I have not seen her for two weeks for various reasons. I get to see her for one night this weekend, she said 'friday or saturday...you pick' . I treat her really good and she claims she is always like this with guys. She also claims to be inlove with me. Are there any other girls out there who agree with her on not wanting to see your guy too much? How can she claim to be crazy about me and hardly want to see me?
2007-03-02 03:13:14 · 27 answers · asked by john g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is busy with work or children it makes sense..also, its ok to give a woman space for a girls night or just time to alone, however, it seems like she may be stringing you along.
2007-03-02 03:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is totally cheating on you. She is the type of person whom I call a "player". Stay away from her or dump her as soon as possible. But if you truly, deeply love her, gather your facts (maybe have a friend spy on her for secret affairs). Sit her down and ask her her true opinion about you, and just communicate.
I don't know about her, but I do know that I, and most other girls, would like to see our men at least a few times every day! But hey, different girls mean different personalities (looking on the bright side). But according to my opinion, I say she is cheating on you and the love between you two has been sinking lately. If this is really bugging you though, go talk to a counselor, a professional love-whatever, or simply an experienced person who went through your situation before.
Good luck and I hope I answered your question :-).
-Kimora Milian
2007-03-02 03:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way when I'm in a relationship. I like my space and time to do my own thing and don't need to see my boyfriend every night. To be honest I'm happy just seeing him on the weekend. I have a lot of friends and I must make time for them as well. I refuse to put them on the back burner just because I'm seeing someone. We may not have a lot of time together but it's always quality time. I never feel like "ugh I'm so sick of seeing you" instead I look forward to being with him, and don't feel smothered this way.
2007-03-02 03:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been guilty of the same thing with a guy I use to be with.
He was a really good guy and he cared about me a whole lot (most girls would die for someone like him) My problem was though that he was just too good. I felt like he was constantly trying to impress me and stuff. It got so annoying. Anyway so when he asked me out I would always come up with an excuse, and it ended up that we would only go out like once a week if that. I finally ended it because I knew it wasnt right to keep leading him on. I would tell him I loved him and junk but it was just because I wanted to the attention. I told him he deserved better than me and he did.
I really hope its not the same situation for you and your girl but you might want to ask her...tell her to be honest(sometimes we have difficulty with that).
2007-03-02 03:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 06:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by benedick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! she seems like she not all that interested in you. Once a week? I am not sure of the situation maybe she has alot of schooling, working alot who knows, but if there isnt a reason to why only once a week, seems that your just there when shes needs you,and shes setting your feelings aside.
She likes to be in control.
She also could be saying the same thing to another guy (certain days).... possibly cheating.
2007-03-02 03:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm..... tough one good relationships are those where both partners give each other space As long as there is communication not seeing your partner for a while is ok! It may not be a case of her not wanting to see you its prob just that you both have other responsibilities and cant always work around each other My advice is talk to her and let her know how this is making you feel. If it really begins to bother you and talking doesn't work then maybe you aren't supposed to be with her!
2007-03-02 03:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by slimssis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem like an awsome guy, but maybe she needs the breathing space. Sometimes if you are with a person for a very long time , you want moments to be by yourself. The saying not seeing a person for a while makes the heart grow fonder... so think of it like that.
2007-03-02 03:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Joann 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you need to let her go. You deserve better. In the beginning it's normal to just get together that seldom, but after a year it's a liitle strange. If she really cared about you and had a strong connection to you she would want to spend more time with you. Do yourself a favor and get out NOW!!!
2007-03-02 04:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by kittymimm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont know about her but i love to be with my boyfriend im with him 24/7 theres not a day thats goes by that i dont want to be with him. Your girfriend claims she loves you if she really does love you then she would want to be with you. i dont know a girl whos in love and does'nt want to spend time with her boyfriend i think there something going on with her or maybe shes scared.maybe a past relationship really hurt her and she dont want to get to attached. all you can do is ask her
2007-03-02 03:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋