Can you feel a strong attraction for someone else even if your in love with your partner??

Question

why does that happen??

Answer 1

Well the answer is Yes Totally

Well because we desire satisfaction and sometimes were not getting it with the ones were with i don't know why like what exactly but in some case it can be subconscious
ok well it' happens usually because we were to quick to settle and not wait for the right one to come along or were just not with our complete self

I'm not saying your not in love because a human can fall in love with anyone or anything for that matter so yeah it's love but there's this part in all of us that still longs for more sometimes

let me explain we all have that idea of that perfect mate

like a stunning blond or a hot brunette or that hot guy we saw last week

but sometimes more than not we tend to settle for what is
not or just give in cause were lonely or we like someone
and we think we must

after all it's better than being alone right ?

but the truth is it's not while now it may be fine in the long run after the flare wears off

we find we are not with our whole self's as i like to say

not complete with that perfect person we imagined
or had in visioned


in life were taught to follow our dreams
and reach for our goals

but why when it comes to our relationships we tend to give up or compromise

i mean i understand the part of not wanting to be alone but who wants to be

also we must understand that in order to be fulfilled in our hearts we have to meet all our needs

I'm not saying theres some perfect guy or women out there but there is something close and sometimes as sad as it seems it's not just what were with....

and in time we tend to see we may have made a hasty choice

also i would like to note that it's not all about the physical
there is something unique about each one of us that makes attractive each person in a different way..

and it's just about finding the good one and not just accepting what it is at hand

so this other person might have other unique qualities that your partner might not or more so than him/her

and that might cause that attractiveness or closeness

so in turn ask yourself why am i with this one

you may love them because of your past but the truth is if we were to put total stranger both with the same relative manners and life styles they would fall in love also

it's just nature...

but if we look for what we want and hold out for it we can get it ..

at least i think so...

ok good luck... and bye ....me..

Answer 2

Yes, it happens cause whether we like to admit it or not we're animals. We're made of the same stuff all other creatures on this planet are made of and we try so hard to be 'human' by society and 'man made' laws. When you see a lion or a monkey attracted to only one other mate let me know.

Answer 3

No,never!If you are really in love with some one then you will never feel a strong attraction for some one else.If you do so then you are not truly in love .

Answer 4

Yes, why...look around nature how many other animals do you see in a monogamous relationship? None, and thats the point we are not made to be with one other mate.

Answer 5

Yes

Lookup polyamory.

I've gone with, dated, and been in love with more than one person at the same time. My last relationship was with two people. We all were in love with each other. I am still in love with them.

Answer 6

It's called lust. It happens, whether you act on it or not is another question.

Answer 7

yeah......