Why?
I am a fairly good looking guy, but when I go out to clubs, I notice that the most beautiful women will be hanging all over the ugliest , fattest Chav looking trash i have ever seen!
why do good looking at clubs , not give me the time of day , but they are all over the above?
2007-03-02 02:58:39 · 32 answers · asked by Charles R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the girls are drunk & the mingers are more forward & theres no chance of rejection
2007-03-02 03:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by helen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women tend to go for men with good personalities, a good sense of humor, and who aren't players. Looks don't always win the game. And let me get this straight with you, women never go for men who expects women to come to them for their looks. Let me also add that true love takes time and passion, you can't just collect women like baseball cards. Women are not magnets.
But I can offer you a tip that can really help you attract a girl: Act intellegent (women love men who are smart. smart men= good future+money). Take your time (when you do attract a lady, and attempt to kiss her, don't think of naughty thoughts yet, and don't dive into her like a Thanksgiving dinner). Be the "good guy". I bet all the girls in the club with their "ugly" mates met before they stepped onto the floor, I mean if you have children would you want them to know that you met their mother in a dance club? I hope not. Try to be funny, and don't go overboard (dirty jokes), as this can degrade you by a million points. And last of all (the biggest key), have respect for everyone. Nobody likes a stuck up, arrogant, rude person who degrades other people for their looks (not saying that you are this type of person, considering that I don't really know who you are).
Good luck and I hope this helped :-).
-Kimora Milian
2007-03-02 03:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
despite the current trend of emphasising on looks, one that that blokes do not seem to understand is that most girls, like a man who can show them interest. The reason that ugly chavvy blokes get more girls is because, they have nothing to loose and they put themselves out and actually chat the girls up. They show that they are interested in thegirl rather than themselves. My personal experience is that the good looking guys, stand around and wait for girls to chat them up. Maybe i forgot to ask the most important question, do you show an interest in these girls and actually talk to them?
2007-03-02 07:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Babe K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy remedy: work out quick and painless to get ýour adrenaline and testosterone up before you go to a club, e.g. (15-25 min of rowing machine). Your self-confidence and FUN will increase greatly. That's all you need, honestly. It's not even for your looks, muscles or anything. Nobody will care for the ugly bloke anymore. Not even you, even if there theres a chick all over him.
2007-03-02 04:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dr Plasma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality before looks that is the issue.
Try harder with these girls. Rather than sitting back and thinking your 'looks' are going to be you attention. The girls will give you plenty of attention if you are funny, or interesting to chat to, humble and friendly.
Not 'eh look at my I'm good looking' - that is a complete turn off.
Chill out man and start to reply on you and not your looks. Looks always fade personality and back bone does not
Good luck
2007-03-02 03:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by Discover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because those hot girls see these blokes from the inside out (like myself) and see their nice personalitlies and that they are not up themselves this added with beer goggles (ha) will probably do it,
also maybe when you go out you give off unfriendly vibes or come across like you look down on those people and are a bit up yourself etc this would always put me off a bloke even a good looking one.
2007-03-02 03:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is often said that ugly guys always get the girl as they have no fear about rejection. As they believe they are ugly, they fully expect to get rejected, buit good looking guys have a fear of rejection. This means the ugly guy has no inhibitions when talking with attractive women, and can make them laugh which I believe women find attractive.
2007-03-02 03:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but it's the same thing in my class. I'm a fairly good looking person aswell. Usually they go out with the ugly guys because they are priicks; You know the rude, disrespectful a total assholle and one of those people you can't just go and beat them up because he would get his friends to out number you.
2007-03-02 03:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Ralph..........maybe they're ugly but the guy with humour and personality is gonna outweigh the pretty boy any day. So mayb grab a personality and these gorgeous dollys will want you too. Good luck x x x
2007-03-02 03:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off a club is not really the place to find a girl... second off half of the girls there are probably drunk...third off if there is a good girl there she would probably be waiting for the guy to come up to her.
2007-03-02 03:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unforchantly all you men look the same once we have had a few drinks!! The ugly chav ones must just be easier to grab hold of!! x
2007-03-02 03:12:26 · answer #11 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋