im fixin to be 20 my boyfriend is 20 things have been goin great in our relationship weve been together for 1 year and 4 months...our relationship is goin great...is it bad that he tells other girls that their hot??? i know of at least two girls that he has said that two...and what about if he was talking to a girl about a car or somethin and was like yea i wish i would of known you earlier cause i would of sold it to you....and it was his brothers it wasnt his...and he has told me that...that if his brother hadnt of sold it that he would of givin it to me...he txted me last night when i told him i was goin to get an apartment...and he was like ''baby no i love you 2 much im sure we might have a few problems along the way but in the end youll be the one i come home to forever''
im just scared that im goin to lose him...and i dont want that to happen
thanks for the answers
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thanks yal
2007-03-02 02:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by christie. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a serious flirtation problem and i dont think he can control it, if he thinks that he has superiority to you and can flirt around adn expect you to forgive him for it left and right hes taking advantage of you dont let him walk all over you, i know you dont want to lose him but i dont think you have any other choice im sorry to tell you but this guy is lost to you.
2007-03-02 02:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Juhboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur b/f takes u and ur relationsihip seriously but at the same time he wants to try new tastes means that he wants to make sex some other girls.... yes ok maybe we can figure out the situation that he will cheat you...but think like that he will not cheat you emotionally just for bodily pleasure so he can choose an other girl just for fun...and I'm sure that he will live one night stand...If u dont want to lose him sexually too u should try some other ways that i can't write here. As he said u he cares u deeply on the other hand wants to have some new and interesting experinces...i know that it is not fair but he will come back to you one way or another. You should talk to him and say that I have some troubles with you and ur different opinions...ıf he says same thing again, u accept this style and give permission him to make sex some other gurls...( i understand u this is really hard to say yes but if u dont want to lose him u have to say ok like this condition .) and If I were u I would let him go b/c i was sure that u wouldn't find better than me.... my mail= feeruse@hotmail.com
2007-03-02 11:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♫♥FG♥♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK i hate to be the one to say this, but the fact that you are afraid of losing him is your problem. Ask yourself if you desever better, if the answer is yes go out and find someone who is busy hitting on other girls and feeding them the same lines that he told you. If you trust him and he is doing this stuff openly in front of you....you need to let him know how you feel about it. The fact that he said he will always come back to you is also another red flag. He should always be with you and the only reason he saying that is to get you to stay. He probably thinks that you will never leave him. If you are not happy follow your heart, it may hurt a little but i bet you will feel better inthe end.
2007-03-02 10:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by *♥Tarita♥* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend does the same thing. We've been together 1 year and 5 months. He's a perpetual flirt. He flirts with cashiers, waitresses, everybody.
As long as he doesn't persue a romantic relationship with these girls then everything is okay. It's perfectly normal for a guy to be attracted to other girls. But he only loves you.
Let him know that it bothers you when he does that and you want to work through it, but you need him to stop that.
If he told you that he wants to come home to you forever, then that means something. He loves you.
Good luck girl.
xoYourBabydoll15ox@yahoo.com
Feel free to email me.
2007-03-02 10:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Dana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, do you know what type of problems he is talking about? If not, ask him. Talk to him, you have to communicate with him or else you will be lost in a jungle of confusion. No it shouldn't be bad that he tells other girls that they are hot. Men are just like that (not to mention the majority of men have nasty pictures saved on their files?). For now, men are just a mystery. Maybe he realizes that he hurt you. But remember you must follow your instincts. If you feel that this is leading to a bad situation, dump him as soon as possible. But like I said you'd have to gather the right facts before you make your first move on him. Maybe he was just helping his brother sell his car, after all it isn't his to give to you in the first place. But you might want to consider "spying on him". Be sly, but if you aren't slick ask someone to spy on him for you. If you (or a friend) catches him flirting or having any affairs with the ladies, he would definately be who I consider a "player". Dump him right on the spot.
I hope this helped :-).
-Kimora Milian
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2007-03-02 11:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's bad that he tells other girls they are hot. I am sure that that doesn't make you too happy.
I know you don't want to lose him, but be really careful. he does seem like the cheating type. for know it's just talk, but even though there is no harm looking, he seems to be expecting some problems "i'm sure we might have a few probs..." but you really need to have talk with him. that's a lot to throw away for a cheat
2007-03-02 10:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by medusaaddams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christie,
You are so young what is your rush into this relatioship for marraige? From what I get out of what your saying he is not faithful. Are you supposed to stick around until he grows up and deal with his disrespectfulness towards you? Honey go out and have some fun--you don't need to go out and spread your legs-just go out and enjoy yourself. Find out who you are inside and make sure you talk to him and tell him how you feel-use kind words, words he will understand use his lingo. One day you will find your answer to your innermost question. Your young there is life out there!!!
2007-03-02 11:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by krazyinchicago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may have a player on your hands. Be careful. This doesnt really pass the smell test for me.
2007-03-02 10:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE ALREADY HAS SET OF MIND THAT HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. DONT TRIP ABOUT HIM CHEATING ON YOU. HAVE TRUST IN HIM. IF YOU LOSE TRUST IN HIM WHATS THE POINT OF BEING WITH HIM. bELIEVE IN WHAT YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND HAVE. EMAIL ME OKAY.
djmiller2008@yahoo.com
2007-03-02 11:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later he'll cheat on you
2007-03-02 10:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋