My dog died I don't know how to deal with it?

Question

My dog just died yesterday and I loved him so much I am crying so hard it put a lot of stress on me.

Thank you so much Summer you gave me great advice it brought tears to my eyes I think you are such a great person you have the best answer Thanks.

Answer 1

I am so sorry!! I know exactly how you're feeling, my 17 year old dog, my best friend and true companion, just died a week ago. it is still hard, although not as hard as the first couple days. i cried A LOT the first couple days because I was sad that she was no here with me, but as the days have passed i have realized i'm just being selfish because I don't have her here with me. i started to think about how much she was suffering and she got to the point where she couldn't even get out of her bed. i know now that she is in heaven, along with your dog. we have to think about their happiness too. they are finally free!!! i know it's hard right now because everything reminds you of your dog. you probably still hear your dog's collar jingling and still smell them around you. i still do.
i guess the only helpful thing i can tell you is to give it time. your dog was lucky to have an owner and friend like you. you sound like a truly sweet person. there is a connection between animal lovers and i'm glad there are so many out there!!!!
just remember your dog is also with any family members or relatives that have passed and you will one day meet again!!!
Please take care of yourself and remember your dog is still with you in your heart and would want you to be ok with what happened. your dog will always love you and vice versa.
peace:-)

Answer 2

I know it is very hard to loose an animal because it is like a a family member.

What you have to realize when you are greeving, you can not bring the dog back no matter how much you cry, so just let the dog RIP. I have lost several animals in the past, but you move on and when you get sad, try to remember the things your dog had done to make you laugh and that will make you feel better.

I knwo sometimes people deal with their losses in many different ways, but sometimes getting a new pet does help. Some poeple don't think so, but think about this, you'll never replace the dog that you had, but the sooner you get a new pet, it will take your mind off of the greeving process, and you are taking care of another animal that needs you.

I suggest you go to you local shelter or pound and adopt a cat of dog, this way you can look at the good things that has come out of this experience, and that because of the death of your dog, you have saved another life from a horrible life or possible death. You could even name the new pet after your dog, that way it is kinda like a dedication to your dog.

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel. I have the same experience
with my dog several years ago. He couldn't breath and the
vet couldn't find the problem fast enough and he past away.
He was deaf and had other medical problems, with his legs,
but he was my baby. When he died I felt like everything around
me had just stopped. My husband and I couldn't get out of bed
and all I could do was cry. I had another dog also, and she
just sat by the door waiting for him to come back. It was one
of the worst times in my life. I took it so hard, I couldn't even
go to work for a few days. I was lucky my boss understood.

It took me a long time to get over it, and I still think of him from
time to time. I did end up buying another dog, but I did so for
my other dog. She didn't like the new dog, but she wasn't
sitting by the door any more, and after awhile I started to feel
better. It's so hard to lose a pet, there's no way to say good bye
cause they just don't understand,and when they die suddenly
it's just as bad. Time will make you feel better. Your dog was
very lucky to have someone who loved him as much as you did.
Think of the good life you gave your dog and take your time
grieving. It's normal and you need to get it out of your system.

So sorry for your loss

Answer 4

I know how you feel My dog died 2years ago & I often think of him still My Yahoo name was my dog's name Hobo. There is a great short passage called The Rainbow Bridge you may be able to get this off the net Try any pet site Take Care & remember many of us have been there

Answer 5

Grieving is different and longer for all of us. Think of the dog fondly and cherrish the time(s) you had. After a time of missing them, try to get a different one. You'll know when you can open your heart to give a new little companion the love and the home you gave the dog you lost. Good luck! I'm sorry about your dog.

Answer 6

I'm so sorry to hear about your dog!! I know it is a very sad and hard thing to deal with.It only happened yesterday give it some time and things will get better.Always remember everything that is born on this earth has to go home to heaven sometime.If your dog was sick be thankful that he is no longer in pain.It is okay to grieve for your pet you loved him dearly.Take your time its okay.There is no time limit on grieving,but everyday it will get a little better,I promise you that.Having pets and letting them go gets us ready for when we lose a grandparent or a parent.It's part of life's process.Again I;m very sorry and feel bad for you but you will be okay.

Answer 7

Have you checked in your area for any pet loss support groups. This would be ideal for you to at least meet with people who have gone through or are going through the same loss. I have lost pets which have meant the absolute world to me and the grief was horrific. You never stop missing them, but time does make it easier to bear the pain.

Answer 8

When I lost my dog, it was almost as hard as when I lost my wife. Look at it this way as I did, you loved and adored your pet but now it's time to let go. they would want you to carry on and enjoy what you have. You have your memories and that's what is important. They will all ways be with your in memory, just don't forget that, and it is OK because you have those memories. And god will take care of him/her till it's your time to be reunited together

Answer 9

Our pets are our friends and family. I cry when I lose mine, but we all know it's coming. (We live longer.)

I don't recommend replacing him with another dog any time soon. In fact, when I lost my last dog, I got a siamese cat. Then when I was ready, (maybe 1.5 years) I got another dog that was not the same breed , nor color, nor size. :) Try to smile.

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Answer 10

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