Am a fresh graduate from a university in search for a girl who would eventually be my wife. But am so disappointed that all the girls that i have met always bring an issue of money whether i have a car or a cosy appartment. None want to be interested to even care how am fevently searching for a job. All they are interested in is whether i have a car and a good home. Am actually looking for a lady friend who truely love me and i will know is not because of my money or a car or a good house before falling in love. Infact one lady told me that NO MONEY NO LOVE . Am just wondering whether one can really find true love without money. I also feel bad that now that most girls don,t look my way, eventually when i start working and driving a car they will troop around me calling me sweet names and acting sweet and good. How can i jst open my arms and smile back knowing fully well that they are sycomphant, FAIR WEATHER , i want to feel real love without the attachment of wealth.
2007-03-02 02:28:39 · 17 answers · asked by lovely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my dear, you are not alone in feeling this way. Sure you'll find love and respect. But at this time worry about yourself and get your self together, a job, transportation, etc. Don't worry about dating and such. Without a job (monies coming in) to pay for things for yourself and your date what is the point. You can't live on love alone, money pays the bills. You don't have to be a millionaire or even make quite alot to be happy. Happiness comes from within. If your not happy inside than you will never be truely happy.
2007-03-02 02:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by krazyinchicago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to keep looking. They are out there. Some women are very materialistic and that's the way they will stay. There are some who don't care what you drive or where you live and will love you for you. Money doesn't make a person who they are. If you are a good guy, treat women with respect and dignity, you will find one. Just don't be in such a hurry to find it...they say when you're not looking is when you will find it.
2007-03-02 02:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot rush love...your girl that completes you will come around eventually...it just may take some time. You will find your othere half...or at least someone you can actually deal with day i nand day out, someone that makes you happy and you make them happy. Money should not be an issue! Alot of girls are some da*n gold diggers! Money does not equal love. People equal love......People make love (no pun intended) But, it will all work out in the end. Just let life take its course and live it to the fullest, you only have one and its short!! So just relax and enjoy the ride!
2007-03-02 02:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money has nothing to do with love. But marriage cannot survive on love alone. It needs financial security, otherwise the stress with tear you appart. Most women like a man that makes some money, because we need to feel secure. Some can take this too far though.
2007-03-02 02:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. People always say that money can't buy love. I think that is totally wrong because if you dont have money, how do you want to flirt a girl ? You need to look neat, tidy and else and what do you need ? Money. Because in today's world everything needs money. Imagine if you get married without a home,foods and else how do you gonna survive in even 1 day ?
2007-03-02 02:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by amalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money cant buy love, that is the one thing I think money doesnt buy...I dont know where you are looking for love but you need to stop doing that, you wont find love like that, it will all come when the time is right and you least expect it, falling into people who just care about what you have and the money you make are not worth it and you will only get hurt, Miss Right will come along probably when you are not too busy out looking for love.
2007-03-02 02:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now a days, young women are not just interested in money. But they are curious as to how you live so they will no if they are wasting time on a homeless, jobless person. They are scared of finding someone who can't support them-self. I don't blame them for that. Too many lazy guys out there. I have met quite a few who are looking for the easy way out. So don't take it personally, just women using caution.
2007-03-02 02:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.it's not true, you can find someone who love you without money, but for the future of a family it's better to have a good financial plan, so you can take care kids and wife, because even you won't be happy if your family is homeless or starving. I think every thing is good with a certain balance in life, so try to find someone who is ready to help you fight and built something together. good luck
2007-03-02 03:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by tigergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are wrong. You have not met with your real love so far. Those girls are trying to make you fool. They are trying to enjoy their time pass on your money and status. However, a break even money source is required for lively hood. Go going, best of luck.
2007-03-02 02:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend pretends not othave any money, but iloved him anyway. not cause of what he had or what he didnt have, but because of how he treated me in the beginning. he swept me off my feet, and when i gave him the opportunity, we had the best time we've ever had! and then i found out he is wealthy, but he still tries to hide it because that kind of wealth os uncommon. im braggin a little bit. but i wouldn't have been able to be with him had i known about his money. it wouldn't have been the same. now he knows that i love him for him, and in the future we will share eachothers fortunes, but not for a long time.
2007-03-02 02:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by theskyisthelimit02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋