when you date a girl, two scenarios:
1) the first couple of dates, do you expect the girl to split the bill? do you feel comfortable with that?
2) several dates later, but havent become a couple yet, should the girl share some fees, like buying movie tickets for both? do you like it or not?
3) about the money issue related to dating, what attitude or ways that girls have will make you feel satisfied and comfortable?
thank you!
2007-03-02 02:24:55 · 9 answers · asked by milk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, it never hurts for a woman to pay.
1) I expect to pay all the time for the first couple of dates. If she offers, I'll most likely deny at first but if she keeps insisting then I'll let her pay for something...just so long she's comfortable with that.
2) After several dates, then yeah I expect she pay for some stuff like I'll pay for the movie tickets and she can get the popcorn/candy/drinks or whatever and vice versa. By this stage, it just shows me she's considerate and not just some free loader or gold digger.
3)As far as dating and money, if she seems to be able to control her spending and not be so high maintenance, then I'd feel comfortable.
2007-03-02 02:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by Gunner For Life! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would but they don't.
On a serious note, no, you dont expect the girl to split the bill on a date. If she proposes and you feel she's comfortable with it, then by all means.
General rule, you try to keep the atmosphere as happy as possible
2007-03-02 10:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by al_ainstain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50-50. Women should have equality with men in all areas of life, which includes splitting the dating costs.
2007-03-02 10:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by cloudofeiderdown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to pay up until I know that I'm in a serious relationship with someone. Then both parties should switch and help pay for things. If I'm dating around, then I have to pay.
2007-03-02 10:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) don't 'expect' - comfortable with this arrangement, if she is.
2) same as #1 -
3) again - I'm most agreeable to whatever 'she' is comfortable with.
2007-03-02 10:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) NO
2) YES
3) Offer to split the bill with me.
2007-03-02 10:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to be "kept" even after the honeymoon. So that's a yes.
2007-03-02 10:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by Flubbadub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually offer to pay for everything, but if the girl wants to pay, i'm not arguing
2007-03-02 10:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by thuglife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always buy everything.
2007-03-02 10:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Skater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋