me and this guy were dating and hes REALLY smart, like in a lot of clubs and sports and honors classes and hes already applying to colleges. Me on the other hand, Im not so sure what I want to do with my life yet, school is important but there are other things in my life that are more important such as my family and God and things of that sort. So pretty much we are on different pages but [[i thought]] we both cared about each other so it would be ok. Well 2days ago he broke up with me. No notice, no anything just broke up with me because hes going away after high school and he didn't want me to get hurt if we dated a long time and then broke up.So the next day he writes me on myspace and tells me that he loves me and wants2 b with me.So im like ok ill think about it.then the next time he gets on he reads my messges but wont talk2 me.Thers no other girls involved and im still his number 1 on myspace and it still says in a relationship...whats up with him?!
2007-03-02 02:24:05 · 7 answers · asked by theblonchic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is one of those "its not you, its me" situations. He has a lot going on and will have even more in the future. He doesn't want to have his heart broken when he goes away to college or maybe pick another college just because it is closer to you and then regret it later. Tell him you still love him and if he loves you the two of you should be together. If you are going to break up it is going to suck and break both your hearts, but why should it matter if it happens now or 4 months from now.
2007-03-02 02:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's confused, like every other male. The same thing happened to my cousin. Her boyfriend broke up with her, outta nowhere, but still wants to act like they're in a relationship without the title. Males are just a confusing species, but if he's causing your more pain than happiness, YOU tell him that YOU want a break. Don't let him call all the shots.
2007-03-02 10:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not sure & until he is, don't get drawn into his uncertainties. And until you're sure about him, don't say with a certainty you want to get back with him. I think you did the right thing by telling him you'll think about it for it is an honest an answer that you can give. However, I don't think he liked that answer. If he really loves you, he'll build up that relationship back again & his refusal to communicate will only hinder that. To be sure if you wish, ask him one last time. Good luck.
2007-03-02 10:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he is confused. It may be another girl you don't know about that is messeing with him. She got his attention then blew him off and then got his attention again. In the meantime he is doing the same thing to you. This goes on and on. It's all a game.
2007-03-02 10:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by maybe l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he is afraid of? Tell him you can just be friends and that is OK until you BOTH decide what it is you want to do.
He might think that you would get mad at him if he told you that he wanted his options open. Not at all unusual for that time of life.
If he knows that you are OK with it, he might relax.
2007-03-02 10:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl Durham, Ph.D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is having trouble making a decision about you so just give him time. He sounds confused.
2007-03-02 10:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes beniceton is right
2007-03-02 10:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋