2007-03-02 02:20:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes its hard to tell. Some girls are just friendly to everyone, many guys take this the wrong way and think they are hitting on them, other times girls are so subtle you don't even realize that they are hitting on you, and they give up thinking you aren't interested
2007-03-02 02:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirt back and see how they respond. Different people have different levels of friendliness for one person saying 'hi' would be an outrageous flirtation; for others kissing you in a club can mean nothing. You need to know what kind of girls you are dealing with.
Flirting hints:
OK here is some advice; watch out though as you don't want to send the signals to the wrong girl. .
Tip 1) Make conversation; not remarks. A conversation invites the other person to give an opinion or share a story. A remark doesn't. 'Loud band huh?' is a remark. 'What do you think of the band?' starts a conversation. Listen to their response
Tip 2) Imitate the person's body posture. Sit or stand like they are and hold your arms and hands the same way. This sends subliminal messages that you are in tune with each other. People who get on well do this naturally
Tip 3) Make eye contact. Preferably from below a lowered eye lid. Hold eye contact slightly longer than might be comfortable. (this is very powerful use with care)
Tip 4) If all of the above went well. Make sure to touch the person. A brush on the hand as if by accident, a pat on the shoulder, a hug or kiss on the cheek if appropriate.
Remember flirting is a game so have fun with it.
2007-03-02 10:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by SmartBlonde 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know for sure is just to come right out and ask them. Do it in a friendly playful way. You have to let a girl know if your interested in her. Make her feel good about herself. She might like you but she is also scared that if you don't like her, she could make a fool out of herself and fear stops people from sharing their feelings a lot of the time with others! No one likes to be turned down. It hurts but if you never take chances in life concerning your heart, nothing exciting or new will ever happen in a relationship of any kind. Be it friendship or romantic. First let her know your interested (if you are) then if she is also interested, she will safe in doing some more flirting with you without fear of being humiliated. But if your not interested in her that way, talk to her as a friend about who you would like as a girlfriend someday and she will know your not interested in her that way so she will of had nothing to lose in the process and still be your friend without all the awkward moments. Good luck.
2007-03-02 10:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by daisyduke070 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEVER KNOW! And take this from a girl.
We're crazy and never know what we want. We love to flirt, even if it's with someone we're not interested in. The whole point of it is basically to count how many guys would actually be interested in us. That's why it's best that guys make the move. You guys are less complicated. You should never "wonder" if a girl is into you, you'd probably never find out unless u ask her out.
2007-03-02 10:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's actually really hard to tell sometimes... because some girls are just really big flirts too, or just being really friendly... So best way is to just ask them out, and see what happens from there I say! If they start avoiding you after that, or flat out say no... It's pretty obvious!!
2007-03-02 10:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by raven975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Observe how she talks to other guys. If she's flirting with everyone then she's just being friendly. If she gives you more attention and smiles than she does other dudes she's most likely into you.
Some of us do know what we want and will come right out and ask you out if we're interested. I would.
2007-03-02 12:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by ♫Silvi♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is tough. If the girl always wants to hang out with you, 80% chance, she has a crush. But if she doesn't hang out with you a lot, well she just being friendly.
2007-03-02 10:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friendly, gain trust, then ask what she means by a certain comment or action.
Something like, "why did you do that"? or What do you mean by that? Let her explain...the answer will give you clues to the motives.
2007-03-02 10:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl Durham, Ph.D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some years ago a hot babe seemed to be hitting on me, but I wasn't really sure. I'm mean why would a hot babe want me? Then one day she told me that she and a few of her friends had been talking about men whom they thought had a nice butt. She told me that she had chosen me. I boinked her the following night.
2007-03-02 10:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by AZ123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally if touching like hitting or anything than thats flirting i think that the guys should make the moves
2007-03-02 10:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by Alexis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋