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We met 6 weeks ago and we had a great romance. It was very sexual, but I had very strong feelings for him as well, and we are both students so we didn't have a lot of time to socialise together.
Suddenly two weeks ago i got girly and emotional and tried to understand what his feelings to me are. I did a stupid thing - called him up and suggested to split up, he said he doesn't want to split up and we decided we will not quit. However, than i got upset with him a few times during the week after that. He asked me why am I upset with him all the time and gave him my reasons plus told him I am not used to going out with a poor student ( I am used to guys flying me on holidays all over the world - I am from a wealthy cirlcle)
He got offended and stoped calling. I than called him and apologised, told him i like him a lot and money doesn't matter but he said he needs "time alone", and he has a guest coming over for a weekend. And i haven't heard from him since monday...
Is it a split?

2007-03-02 02:18:24 · 21 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

yes you snotty cow

2007-03-02 02:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Well i would certainly split up with you and I wouldn't have been that nice with you.

You've been seeing some poor guy a month and then you get a bit hormonal and feel that 'boo-hoo' he doesn't love you - get real it's been a few weeks, you had some great sex but so what? And so you tell him to take a hike. Great, that's really mature, I want you, i love you, now leave?! So then you apologise and he takes you back - more fool him becuase then, spoilt brat that you are, you have a go at him because he can't afford to treat you like a little princess! It doesn't matter what your circle is that is a deep down and callous lack of respect.

You don't deserve to have anyone and obviously not someone as mature as this guy sounds. I suggest you shape up and learn your lesson about treating other people with respect or else ship off back to daddy where your mood swings are mollycoddling and your credit card paid off. Grow up!

2007-03-02 02:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 1 0

I'm sorry but I think you brought this upon yourself - you tell him you want to split up, you go all moody on him, then you really kick him where it hurts by telling him you're used to men with money - and I know you said money doesn't matter, but it does, otherwise you wouldn't have said it in the first place. I think you deserved to be dumped, and he's probably just trying to let you down gently rather than drop you from the huge height (a private jet, perhaps?) that you seem to deserve.

2007-03-02 02:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 0 0

I am not surprised he has stopped calling you, money isn't everything you know, you cant buy love. He must have been so hurt when you said that to him. You should have just asked him outright what his feelings for you were, OK it was early day's in your relationship and he may not have yet known what his feelings truly were, but he must have really liked you because he didn't want you to split up. It wouldn't surprise me if you never heard from him again, and to be quite honest who could blame him.

2007-03-02 02:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by kevina p 7 · 0 0

Sounds like you really rocked his boat. I am not sure why you felt you needed to start playing games. Us guys don't like things put on a plate for us, we like a bit of hard to get. But if you start messing with our heads we tend to question whether your worth it. My advice would be to leave it until the earliest next Wednesday, no contact at all. Wait for him to contact you. If he hasn't got in touch by Wednesday, send him a text and ask if he fancies meeting up, if he says no, you have got your answer, if he says yes, you must be a fit piece of totty! Just dont go playing games with his head again. Good luck!

2007-03-02 02:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Connor 1 · 0 0

Ok him telling you that he needs alone time is his way of hanging out with this other girl that is coming to town. He gets a free pass while you are still on the hookl. It will be ok i think you should move on though. He cant keep asking for a break everytime a girl comes to town.

2007-03-02 02:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tia 2 · 0 0

prove to him that money doesnt matter to you by arranging to do something that neither of you will have to spend any money doing or, take him out and you pay for everything.
Money doesnt buy you happiness love maybe you need to learn that the hard way, or learn to think before you say anything in future. good luck.

2007-03-02 06:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yup, you're single and probably deserve to be with the attitude that us men should "fly you all over the world on holiday".

2007-03-02 02:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by bassmonkey1969 4 · 0 0

It's a split. You sound like a spoilt brat so he's probably better off chicks x x x

2007-03-02 03:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0 0

Sounds possible and i wouldn't blame him after what you said to him..An apology doesn't take back what was said so maybe you'll think before you speak next time;If he gives you a next time

2007-03-02 02:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by trish b 7 · 0 0

it sound like a split to me, i think they are things that we can say that sorry will not fix like when you said to him that you are used to date guys that fly you on holidays that was harsh girl don't you think. if i were you i will move on because even if you get back together he will always hold it against you.

2007-03-02 02:34:17 · answer #11 · answered by nat j 2 · 0 0

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