my boyfriend bugs the heck outta me when he does it. but he says that its not like he wants to have sex with them everytime he looks, he just looks.
2007-03-02 02:17:36 · 28 answers · asked by Candice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes Iv'e noticed that even when a guy is with his girlfriend he stares at other girls I hate when I'm the other girl than I feel bad for the girlfriend than I just smile at her which normally gets a very evil look than I keep walking lol
2007-03-02 02:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, just because they're with you, doesn't mean they're suddenly blind. Either just look yourself, or learn that LOOKING isn't TOUCHING. He's not cheating on you by looking. It's human nature for us to look at beautiful things.
If it really, REALLY bugs you, ask him to do it subtly or say something bad about the girl he just looked at like, "Yeah, she's 5'10 with long blonde hair and boobs the size of watermelons, but wow, did you see how saggy her *** was? Yours is MUCH cuter." Hubby does that for me, and even though I know he's lying through his teeth, it makes me feel better (which is why he does it).
2007-03-02 10:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend has any respect and class he will refrain from looking at other women when he is with you. You wouldnt do that to him. And for the men that says its only a thing men do that is silly, its a poor excuse for poor behavior. Its called RESPECT.It also is a way for you to feel very insecure with him and unappreciated. Tell him to show you he respects and loves you and be a better man.
2007-03-02 10:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes - he's a guy. It's rude of him to not be discreet though. You should give him hell for that kind of disrespect (but do stop short of trying to curb the eyeballing - that's a losing battle). Oh - your husband will someday do this too (but hopefully you won't ever notice).
2007-03-02 10:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by Makakio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup guys are like that in nature they just want more every single time they see a hot girl pass by them.
2007-03-02 10:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....and guys with wives still check out women...and girls with boyfriends still check out other guys...etc. It's okay to look, you shouldn't let your ego cause problems, unless he's really hurtful about it. Like saying "boy I wish you had a rack like her."
2007-03-02 10:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by the beet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he does. He doesn't all of a sudden go blind when he starts dating someone. And neither do you, thank goodness. It only becomes a problem if he is super obvious about it and does it right in front of you. That is just disrespectful.
2007-03-02 10:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by cochratl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing wrong with looking.....god gave him eyes to see but if he complements them in front of you like telling you owww she's pretty then that's just plan disrespect...it's natural for guys to think but not do or say
2007-03-02 10:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure they do - I still look at other guys even though I'd never consider cheating on my bf. Looking is not touching - there is nothing wrong with it.
2007-03-02 10:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup. and he's telling the truth. i've been with my girl for 7 years now and i still check out other girls. but it's not like i would do anything, i'm just appreciating their beauty. but none as much as my girls. don't let it bother you.
2007-03-02 10:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by eriq p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋