We met 6 weeks ago and we had a great romance. It was very sexual, but I had very strong feelings for him as well, and we are both students so we didn't have a lot of time to socialise together.
Suddenly two weeks ago i got girly and emotional and tried to understand what his feelings to me are. I did a stupid thing - called him up and suggested to split up, he said he doesn't want to split up and we decided we will not quit. However, than i got upset with him a few times during the week after that. He asked me why am I upset with him all the time and gave him my reasons plus told him I am not used to going out with a poor student ( I am used to guys flying me on holidays all over the world - I am from a wealthy cirlcle)
He got offended and stoped calling. I than called him and apologised, told him i like him a lot and money doesn't matter but he said he needs "time alone", and he has a guest coming over for a weekend. And i haven't heard from him since monday...
Is it a split?
2007-03-02 02:17:01 · 9 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is a split.
He has realized that, (no matter what you say with your mouth) you are too materialistic for him.
2007-03-02 02:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say more than likely yes - however, you appear to realise your mistake (bad one at that). Perhaps you should now use this period of time to accept that plenty of students are living day to day and can still have a personality to match any 'jet-set student'. You must take this as a lesson learned and when you meet your next chap - accept him for what he has and not for what he can give you financially. I must say that such as you are from as you say 'wealthy circle' you could not find somebody to ask your question to - which goes to show 'money does not have all the answers'. I do not wish to appear harsh, it is just that you must take the lesson and come out of it a better person, hopefully. Leave the chap alone - if he phones good (for you) he if you have listened to what I have said he may 'just' see a better person in you. I would not phone him though - at all.
2007-03-02 02:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by deep in thought 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have basically made him feel inferior & should have been more sensitive. In a way, he will always feel that somewhere down the line, you'll probably bring this up again. Be honest, you're from a wealthy circle, would you give all that up for him? I think he's thinking the same.
You don't sound mature enough and that already spells trouble for such a union. As to whether it is a split or not, see if he contacts you again. Be patient and wait for he has made it known he needs his space right now.
2007-03-02 02:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't want an answer to this do you...?
Okay, I won't have a laugh (or too much of one) on your behalf... but this episode for you will (I hope) show you the follies of believe all the hype about oneself...
You were actually having a great time with this guy and you could hack it because he was not taking you around the world and treating you like a 'princess'??
Wow!
Be careful that you might actually end up with someone like yourself.
2007-03-06 01:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, give him time to think and please realize that you had hurt him by being so childish giving out comments to him that made him upset. A relationship doesn't depend on being rich or being intelligent. It is being understanding and accepting each others faults.
Give him time and if he does not call you back in a few days, then start looking for someone else that you think is different from him. And one lesson for you to ponder : NEVER UNDERESTIMATE YOUR BOYFRIEND and ALWAYS BE AN UNDERSTANDING PERSON , THINK BEFORE SAYING ANYTHING TO AVOID HURTING someone's feelings and ego.
2007-03-02 02:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by wildflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its still your move. You hurt his feelings and his ego very severely with the money comments and the attempt to split up. If you really want to win him back you are going to need to show him that you are on the same wavelength and that you can love him the way he is..... not richer!
A big gesture (not an expensive one) might be your best bet to win him back. I don't think its too late.
2007-03-02 02:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by SmartBlonde 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes he realised - luckily early on, how shallow, materialistic and childish you are and he probably has a girl staying over with him at the weekend. Move on, go find someone with a rich daddy then you will be ok.
2007-03-02 02:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by TJ O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you treat him like that after 6 wks why should he want to see you again
you sound a right snotty nosed cow used to getting things her own way & no thought for other peoples feelings
2007-03-02 02:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by miss smidgey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are a real b*tch. If I was the guy i would never call you again. If he does call you consider him your man for life cause no one i know would forgive you for what you said.
2007-03-02 02:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋