I screwed up, I was and still am in love with this girl, and so I had to tell her because it was really bothering me inside and I just had to tell her. She knows I like her, I've shown I like her a lot by sending flowers to her school on valentines day, etc. But I've never told her in person until a few days ago, I went to her house after class and I gave her the money I owed her which I actually gave her more $ than I actually owed her, anyways and I asked her "Do you like me more than a friend", I think I caught her off guard and she said "I don't know, Its hard, I like you as a friend though". Without this girl in my life its really hard to move on, we always made each other laugh, and she was just perfect in everyway. I just want our friendship to be like it was before I told her my feelings for her, and Now I don't know if we will ever see each other again because of the awkwardness she may feel now. I don't knw when/if she will ever call me again. what can I do????
2007-03-02 02:14:12 · 7 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never really see her because she goes to a different school, and I can't talk to her on the phone because she isn't getting along with her parents. I really want to tell her I'm sorry and that I screwed up.
2007-03-02 02:15:56 · update #1
Relax,thats the first thing. You are all intense inside due to your feelings. Try to imagine yourself as her for a second, step out of yourself. Out of the blue someone you really like tells you that they want more. Even if she wanted you to say that, its unlikely that she will react like the films and jump into your arms.
She is probably confused, does not want to hurt you with a hasty response that she would just say to cover up her confusion. If she likes you and wants the same, you will know as soon as she is ready. If she just wants to stay friends, then she might act cool for a while, just to play for time and to give you time to readjust. Either way, the important thing is to step back, be available to her at the same time and only bring up the incident if it seems like she wants to talk about it. Then you will know whether to kiss her, or just shrug your shoulders and laugh off an apology for what you said. Remember too that even though she may feel awkward, you have paid her a huge compliment and either way, in time, she will acknowledge this. I seriously doubt the friendship is over, you are just overreacting because you are in love.
2007-03-02 02:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by susieboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stop by her house and tell her that you are sorry for dropping the bomb on her. Tell her you respect her wishes if she does not have the same feelings for you. It will be fine. She just has to past her shock thats all.
Also you can try sending her letter or picking heer up from school./
2007-03-02 02:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on man. Sad but true. Call her again to apologize and find a girl in your own school
2007-03-02 02:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude werid i have that same exact prob. but anyway im going to find one of her friends and send a note explaining what happened and telling her that im a friend always.
2007-03-02 02:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dun have to say sorry tat u screwed up or anything.. if u like her.. jus tell her straight forward.. girls prefer guys to be like this.. give her some time coz she said she dunno.. means she is not sure.. u tell her u can wait for her as long as the world never ends.. as slong as she is your! tell her dude..
2007-03-02 02:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get in contact if you feel that way
2007-03-02 02:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks...um...nothing
2007-03-02 02:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by tony4321_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋