I was in a relationship (not a very long one) where I thought everything was more than fine. We were really getting along well. He was the one who pursued me. And suddenly he stopped calling and didn't want to see me any more. What could've gone wrong?
2007-03-02 02:06:24 · 6 answers · asked by Si 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anything could have gone 'wrong'
He might have met someone he preferred.
He might have realised you weren't the girl he thought you were.
He might, for no real reason, have suddenly and inexplicably gone off you.
He might have realised that no matter how gorgeous you were your politics/your views on child-rearing/your love of Robbie Williams/your ever so slightly annoying laugh/your mother/his feelings for his ex/your weird friend or whatever would get in the way sooner or later.
Who knows - chances are it either wasn't you or was something so inconsequential about you that its not worth worrying about. I promise in a couple of years you won't even remember his surname.
2007-03-02 02:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of possibilities. Only you can find out for yourself by actually confronting him. He may have met someone else, he may have thought that things were moving too fast. He probably just lost interest, sorry to say. Maybe you're not the person he thought you were or could be. Or maybe he's just a scum bag. Don't blame it on yourself. There are plenty of things that could have contributed to his actions but only you can find out "what went wrong". All the luck to ya!
2007-03-02 02:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOSH!!!!!!!!! I want to talk to you cuz i am in the very same situation right now!!! He was the one that pushed things along adn we were good friends and had a great time, once we kissed he stopped talking to me till i called and he said it;s not meant to be,. guys are so wierd and JERKS!!!! i feel like i did something wrong but don;t worry it wasnt' you,,,,but i totally feel your pain and am glad i'm not alone
2007-03-02 02:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't really much details so I won't really know. But try to contact him and talk it out. Go and meet him if you have to. If he still gives you the cold shoulder, then its time for you to move on.
2007-03-02 02:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't know then the only person who can answer this question is him and you'll either have to ask him or just leave it.
my advice, you're too good for him so move on....quickly
2007-03-02 02:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by flojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got bored.
2007-03-02 02:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋