2007-03-02 02:05:59 · 17 answers · asked by Thereyahgo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its called stalking, not courting if she doesnt like you.
2007-03-02 02:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by chris m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep seeking opportunities to talk with her...share in light conversation...general conversation...yet stay away from topics such as ~ ~ " Would you like to go out sometime?"...Comments on her beauty..." I find you very sweet " ~ ~ Comments as that will not be welcome right now because, as you said...She "seems not to like you".
By you keeping youself in her general presence through light conversation, she might feel more comfortable, not pressed, and might soften to pay attention to you or see you in a different light...Hopefully the ' light ' that you are seeking and that is to court her.
Keep in mind also...Just because you are attracted to her and wish to court her won't necessary make you right for her so she would not be welcoming for you to court her. She might be right for you...yet you may not be right for her. That doesn't make you " wrong", it just makes you not right for her. If that is discovered accept that, be the gentleman and don't continue to pursue her in a more warming way.
There IS a woman, may or may not be this one, that will mutually, warmly and lovingly reflect the same interest towards you that you have towards her. Yet if it is NOT mutual, accept that, move yourself past these feelings for her and open yourself to keeping your eyes and heart open as another WILL cross your path...the right one of mutual interest and feelings.
2007-03-02 10:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strike up friendly chats not involving relationships. Loosen up the ropes between you two by constantly making contact. Eye contact is important in a courtship, and as from what I've heard, Marrilyn Manroe once said, 'If you could make a girl laugh, you could make her do anything.'
2007-03-02 10:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you only want to court her cause you can't have her? People always seem to want what they can't have. Maybe you should act like you don't want her and then she might court you.
2007-03-02 10:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't work like that! You may be able to trick her for awhile, and flatter her, etc... but after awhile she's just going to resent you when all the romancing dies down... Cuz it's not you that she likes, she just likes the attention, and the flattering! So give it up, and find someone who actually likes you!
2007-03-02 10:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by raven975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find a girl who likes you.
2007-03-02 10:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You usually can't do that without a gun and threats. But then the stupid police come and you gotta shoot your way out. Take it from me it's a big mess. I'll never do it again.... ^_^
2007-03-02 10:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other fish in the sea. It's enough of a headache if she likes you. Find one that likes you.
2007-03-02 10:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by Wil T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant man! She either likes you or she doesnt...theres no in between. You cant make someone like anyone....its just how they feel, they cannot help it!
2007-03-02 10:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm i didn't really like this guy but he liked me so we tried dating the last few weeks,....now it ended and i'm hurt, i think we tried to have there be something there when there never really was, don't push it
2007-03-02 10:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋