I broke it off with ny bf and I realized I'm nothing without him so we got back together during reading and I luv him so much so when (hhow) do you know to break it off with your bf??
2007-03-02 02:00:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I realized I'm nothing without him
... theres your problem ... until you figure out who you are and what makes you happy, you will continue to destroy all of your relationships
2007-03-02 02:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you were something before him and you need to remember that. Saying that you're nothing without him is a false statement. It seems like you may be in love with the idea of being in love. Many times people always go back to comfort after a break up. Ask yourself if you really love him. Write out the pro's and con's. You obviously broke up with him for a reason and may be looking past the bad for the simple fact of being alone and not finding someone else. Just remember you are something without him and think really hard about if it is really love or the comfort of being in love. I know that after a break up no matter how bad the relationship was you always only see the good times and not the bad and it usually is always worse then it was before. Good luck.
2007-03-02 10:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by antie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you said "Youa re nothing without him!"
Not true. You are a human being, a daughter, an employee, etc. You were feeling the natural feelings that come along with a break up. Believe me I'm with you though. How do you know may not be the quesiton. The question may be, how do you know when you are actually strong wnough to stick to your decision.
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-03-02 10:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIrst off the most important thing that you did and said that is totally wrong is, you nothing without him? you need to believe in yourself first and foremost... Any man that would make u think that or think its acceptable to think is wrong and shows hes a control freak, without you having to say anything about him... it shows just how you asked ur question on here... never ever feel like you have to think your nothing without any man... you are someone... you appear to be very needy and this man knows this and this is how he can control you... learn to be independent and strong willed for youself, because in the end you noone but your self... I had to learn the hard way and this may be tough for you to hear, but you need to understand that if you think u are nothing without him, then what makes you think u are someone with him? be urself and love yourself... if u think ur nothing, then u dont love urself, and if u dont love urself then u arent good for anyone right now... because without loving urself, noone could love you the way they should... meaning u get men like the man you are dating... take it from me im almost 32 and i have been through alot and have come a long way. I am independent and single and love being single... If u can be your self, love urself and realize that you are someone, that your the best someone and even without a man in ur life, then u will have the world by the balls... you then gain control of ur life and every situation that comes ur way... you will feel free and not needy... trust the real men hate needy women and the worst thing u could do to urself without realizing it is being with a man who knows this about u and uses that to his advantage... i can tell all of this from one statement that you made and its not a good situation... get rid of the guy and stand on ur own two feet and be alone for a long time and you will finally feel free and full of life... take the time to find urself, truly find who u truly are.. it will for hurt for a while, but if he really loved u or cared for u, he would have let u go a long time ago and would never make u feel like u are nothing without him... that seriously is a horrible thing to say about urself... seriously think about what i said and im always here if u need to talk...
Love Aurora
2007-03-02 10:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by aurorathegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you don't have any feelings left towards him, when you think that things are over between you two. And if you want to break up with him, you could break off all contacts involving him, even though you'll have this sense of yearning for him, you shouldn't care about it, otherwise you'll never be able to let go of him at all.
2007-03-02 10:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your not receiving anything from the relationship. That goes with anything boyfriend girlfriends bestfriends. People have relationships because they enjoy that persons company for one reason or another, if your not having fun your only going to torchure yourself and hurt the other person by continuing it. Honesty is the best policy and tell the person the truth.
2007-03-02 10:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was you reading? Rom Com?
When he "forgets" to get up for work like my boyfriend this morning and then , has no money to do anything all the time
2007-03-02 10:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by UkDancing_Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the butterflies have all flown away
when u don't feel the smae as u once did towards him
when u find yourself a new hottie
2007-03-02 10:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust in the lord with all thy heart and lean not on your own understanding
2007-03-02 10:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by sweetlips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep acting like the child you are and you won't have to worry about it. He'll break-up for you.
2007-03-02 10:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by The Hero Inside 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋