im 26 and a size 8 - 10 about 5'5,i keep fit and im not ill,the girls i know and work with and in general are heavier feel they need to point out that im way too skinny and need meat on my bones and say some hurtful things even though i think im fine,im a 30 dd in chest and have a booty too so its not like i dont have a shape or curves,slim girls can have curves too.it winds me up i think its just the fact that while they're munchin on straw i can quite happily eat a burger king and full fat products and dairy products etc while they starve to get to my weight,its my metabolism which works it off and i look after myself,big girls should no that some slim girls arent ill just we cant help it,it really hurts my feelings and i think its uncalled for..what do you think???
2007-03-02 01:52:04 · 18 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry im a size 6-8
2007-03-02 01:55:38 · update #1
I'm sure you probably have your share of "fat" jokes. And thanks for clarifying that you meant size 6-8, I'd hate to think you were so huge as to wear a 10.
2007-03-02 01:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No matter how slim you are or how fat you are people will always try to put you down its all about insecurity, I am 39 and i have an under active thyroid so my metabolism is non existent so i put on weight very easily I do stress about it as before this I was always a size 10-12 but such is life I don't stress to the point that I live on rabbit food, so you know what girl you enjoy your slim figure and the ability to eat what you like when you like cause you never know how long it will last for, forget the haters they only comment cause they are unhappy with their selves, next time they comment or criticise your weight look at them and laugh then go out and but the biggest burger and eat it in there faces while they have a slimma soup or carrot xx
2007-03-06 08:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sod Them!
This is also bullying in the work place which is the latest bug bear, so have a word with your manager if it upsets you.
They are just jealous as you keep fit and have a fast metabolic rate, girlfriend is also a size 6 but she eats vegy and works out in the gym and yoga 5/6 times a week, if you put the work in why be ashamed off your body.
2007-03-02 11:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel because I have the "you're too skinny" comments made to me also. I'm 5'2" and 105 lbs with a metabolism of a greyhound. (although I don't have a chest like yours..lol..lucky girl) I don't go around giving my input on people who are heavier because that too would be hurtful. I would just smile and turn the other cheek...after awhile it won't matter anymore. Be proud of who you are and how you look and not let others affect you.
2007-03-02 10:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by freckles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
size 8-10 at 5ft 5" isn't that tiny.. these girls are just trying to get you to their size! I am 5ft 8" size 6-8 and I still feel that I could be more toned. I am very healthy and athletic. Keep the weight and body style that makes you happy, check out your BMI I am certain that you will fall in the healthy range. You will experience far less health problems than obese people will as well, so brush it off and understand its just jealousy.
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
2007-03-02 10:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Betty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should nicely say that stop teasing me about my weight, you're giving me a complex.
As a rule people assume that if your are thin or good looking that nothing hurts your feelings. When I was a 30 I was told I looked like I had aids. When I gained weight I was told that I "was getting puffy." So you should really only pay attention to what you like when you look in the mirror.
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-03-02 09:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you some girls can't help that they are so small. They shouldn't say hurtful things to you. Just remember they are jealous. Even if they say they are not. anyone other talks smack to someone is jealous of something. Don't let it bother you. You know the truth. enjoy that skinny body and da booty lol.
2007-03-02 10:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Krista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're just jealous, dont let them get to you. I'm a 5-6 and 5 4" and i eat alot of junk food i especially love Burger King!
2007-03-02 10:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by JudiM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad to say, but people usually make rude and hurtful comments to others when they are jealous or unhappy with themselves.
That sounds like what is happening here.
I know it is hard, but you should just let the crap they are saying roll off your shoulders and try not to keep thinking about it. You can not change people like that.
You should also be proud of yourself for taking care of yourself and not being rude to them just because they are rude to you!
be cool...
2007-03-02 09:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a heavier girl, I still agree with you. They are just jealous. Just tell them, "I can't believe how lucky I am that I don't have to watch what I eat and still look this hot!" That will shut them up! haha
2007-03-02 09:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋