i recently joined a dating site. and i'm not interested in any of the "hits" that come my way. should i just go out with one or two to get out of my comfort zone. has this happened to anyone else. i just feel like rejecting them all and hiding under the covers! my last serious relationship came to a full and complete end over a year ago. it was one of those horrible relationships that wouldnt die lol and my marraige before that was no better. so i have NOTHING to look forward to.
2007-03-02 01:49:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing youshould do is to get to peace with yourself, go out there and do things that make you happy. You need to focus on yourself and get to the bottom of thhe garrabage of your past relationships.
Give other guys a chance when you are ready to date, they are not all monsters. There is a nice guy waiting for you but you will not find him in your present grumpy self.
When you have hang ups they are displayed on your face and manners and no one want to deal with your rubbish from your exes.
2007-03-02 01:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by laol 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Princess Buttercup.
Prince Bitter here. I agree with you. I went througha break up and got on a dating site. OMG! I was not only annoyed, I was disgusted at the lack of ability people have to carry on a conversation. I couldn't quite figure out why people sign up for an on-lin dating (if they can't hold a conversation through chat). So it's not just you and no, I don't you should settle on going out with a couple of the annoying one's. If they are annoying then they are annoying.
You can't make an orange purple.
So what I decided was that I will continure the chat however I am also adding "going out" and socializing to my life as well.
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-03-02 01:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I did get annoyed at first. you just want to ask them " can't you read?" I had definite things I was looking for and many responded who were not those things. Be patient, don't waste your time "explaining" why you 2 aren't a good match. it may take a while. go ahead and find ones that interest you, the dating sites have an option to see who had checked you out. that may open the door for them to contact you. good luck and be careful
2007-03-02 02:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by ann s 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest always taking things really slow. Know the person fairly well before you decied to go out with them, especially if you meet them over the net, just be cautious. you'll find someone though, good luck.
2007-03-02 01:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you find someone interesting then go out with him, just to get your feet wet again.
2007-03-02 01:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋