As a Christian man, how important is it for your girlfriend/wife to be attractive/beautiful?
2007-03-02 01:47:45 · 9 answers · asked by shirah_life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Critically important.
Now let me clarify!
She must be absolutely GORGEOUS inside. Chemistry is important, to be sure, but if she's not at peace with and in love with God, her outer beauty will wither. If she is at peace with and in love with God, her outer beauty will be magnified many times over.
I want to have the same reaction I believe Adam had when he woke up and saw Eve for the first time.
2007-03-02 01:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by AF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is the Spiritual and then the natural. In the natural, of course we want a beautiful, attractive wife. But there really is so much more than that. She MUST be beautiful inside, and have a heart for God and people. Read Proverbs 31. Any man that is really Christ-like will agree, "Charm is deceitful, beauty is vain, but a woman that fears the Lord is to be praised." My wife is both, and that's close enough to perfect for me.
2007-03-02 09:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Matt B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear......it is just as important to a 'christian' man as it is to a 'non-christian' man. Regardless of their faith, all men prefer attractive women. Regardless of their faith, you will never hear a man say 'I don't really care what she looks like as long as she is christian'. I am not, by any means, implying that men are shallow creatures without hearts or that they would love a beautiful women with terrible personality. But they are essentially men, and by their very nature prefer beauty along WITH decent morals if given a choice.
2007-03-02 09:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a christian one should not look for beauty but love, love beareth all
2007-03-02 10:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by SK 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no offence but this is a weird qustion =)
but looks is nothin its personalty that counts.
guys who go after looks are just using u. for ur physical appearings. u fall in love with the person, how she /he is from the inside not how they look .
2007-03-02 09:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really doesn't matter as long as ur hearts with god, but beauty is just an extra feature that we love
2007-03-02 09:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by sscaptain16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just have to say....it shouldn't matter to a true christian.
2007-03-02 09:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes from the heart!!!
2007-03-02 09:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by u_b_easy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its who you are and how you carry yourself that would be more important to me
2007-03-02 09:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by bruce m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋