ALL I want is pleasure from this married man. I feel intense passion towards him and I know he feels the same by the way he looks at me. There is definitely chemistry.
And No I am not desperate. As far as hes concerned - he has no idea how much I want him.
And how can I be wrecking his wife and kids - THEY WONT FIND OUT.
2007-03-02 01:44:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I have responded to another of your questions about the same subject. I am afraid if you want people here to support your going after a married man, I don't think it is going to happen, either in response to your questions, or in person.
Please consider that down deep you know it is wrong, or you would not be attempting to find support for behaviours that can lead to heartache for he, you, and his wife and children.
I am genuinely saddened for you.
--That Cheeky Lad
2007-03-02 07:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Heard of a little thing called Karma? What goes around comes around. Life on earth would be a much better place if people thought of others and not only themselves and their own desires and wishes. Even your question begins with 'All I want...'
You say the wife and kids won't find out but still what you're doing is wrong and deceitful. Put yourself in his wife's position?? And how do you know they will never find out? By having any sort of affair with him you are distracting his attention from his family anyway so that's how you'll be wrecking his life even if they never find out.
Have some respect for someone else's marriage. If you're not desperate like you say you are then act like it and behave a bit more respectful.
Sorry, but you have to be told - what you're doing is wrong and there's no right about it!
2007-03-05 10:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Layla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't go there. NEVER go for a married man and if a married man ever approaches you for an affair, just forget it.
If someone is married WITH KIDS, there is no such thing as harmless fun. How do you know they won't find out? Do you know what that would do to the kids?
If he ever wants to break up with his wife, then that's his decision, but don't be a part of it.
Just move on, get over it, and find an unattached guy
2007-03-02 01:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Go and get a boyfriend of your own instead of pinching someone Else's husband. You should be bloody well ashamed of yourself think of the poor wife and more so his kids, better still imagine you were the wife.
I'm not bloody surprised you don't have a boyfriend who the hell would want a sly and devious person like you anyway.
2007-03-05 02:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by pixie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope both your bf and his wife find out about the whole thing, they both deserve to know what kind of people they're with, and make up thier own minds. And hey, brainiac, let's go to a public forum where id's could possibly be traced to real identites and spash this wonderful idea out to the world. Yup, you're really good at keeping secrets! I'm sure they'll never find you out!
2007-03-02 03:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by poet 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Dear god, i've failed again!
I feel I have to be very straight with you as you seem very feisty:
"He has no idea how much I want him?"
Yes dear, when he breaks it off and you still "feel intense passion" what will you do then? hang outside his house just in case he feels this "chemistry" again?
He's married, you are nothing more to him than a distraction, trust me, he knows EXACTLY how much you want him.
He is not your boyfriend, you are not his girlfriend, he is someones husband and you are his whore.
Wife and Kids ALWAYS find out.
2007-03-05 09:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by RedSnook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you sometimes get attracted to people and it's like a force pulling you together. The strength is in not doing anything about it. How could you want to sleep with someone else's man? That is so wrong. In the dark ages they hanged people for this. In france they drowned them. You should be ashamed of yourself!!!
Do you just sleep with anyone you fell attracted to? Shame on you!!!!
2007-03-05 08:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by happy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me start out by saying you are selfish and an idiot.
There is no possibly way you can possibly know that his wife will not find out. Men are generally not very good liars and women's intuition is quite keen.
You should mostly likely seek some sort of professional help as you are obviously destructive and narcissistic.
2007-03-02 02:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by smedrik 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people thought that no one would find out... and sometimes that's true but often as not, things do have a way of being discovered.
2007-03-02 02:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sheriam 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have problems. His wife will probably find out. There are no guarentees in life. Also, you seem to be a S L U T. I hope your boyfriend is out having affairs, too.
2007-03-02 03:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by yellow_raven1978 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋