any one out there with sugguestions or ideas please send them, because i really need help!!!!!!!!!! we've also been talking about marrage!!! what should i do
THANKS LOVE ALWAYS
Babyeyore
2007-03-02 01:02:32 · 12 answers · asked by babyeyore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he really wanted to be in a relationship with you he wouldn't cheat
2007-03-02 01:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are cheating on each other, why would you even be considering marriage? Can you live with the fact that if he has done it 3 times he will do it again? And...if you are cheating that must mean that you are not happy or something is missing in the relationship.
Maybe it is a good thing he left...you should move on with your life and not allow him back into it.
Sorry, but something was just not right with you two being together or all of this would not have happened.
be cool...
2007-03-02 01:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only works one way doesn't it. A mans way that is. Marriage means commitment & I think you have got the wrong one to live up to this.
Im glad that you gave him a taste of his own medicine. Now he knows what it feels like. Maybe he will think twice about cheating on you again when he finally comes out of his childish mood. You have not set an example to him because you have cheated on him too. You are now as bad as him. Maybe thats what he needed to make him go one way or the other. I think you should have a big smirk on your face right now & let him stew for a while. Don't go chasing him. Let him come begging to you.
2007-03-02 01:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Another Planet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know making that mistake once I can see.3 times unacceptable.Dump him.He doesnt really care about you.I dont agree with once a cheater always a cheater,but after 3 times I would have to agree.
People can make mistakes,but you are supposed to learn from them.Also you cheating on him is not right either.It just adds more drama.
Get rid of him and find someone who wants you only.There are plenty of guys that would like nothing more than 1 woman in there life.When you get him though.Make sure you take care of his needs,and that your needs are met.
In my experience,most of the time when someone cheats it is because they are not getting what they want from there spouse or partner.So it is important to please your man as long as he is pleasing you.
2007-03-02 01:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need to part ways... If you are both cheating on eachother... you are obviously not happy.
I could never IMAGINE cheating on my husband. We've been together for over 9 years and started dating when I was 15 years old and could never hurt him.
You need to stop cheating on him, give him the boot, clean up your act and find a decent man who wont cheat on you and you wont cheat on!
2007-03-02 01:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by oxosasoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, he cheated on you three times. He is not going to stop after you are married. Don't do it and move on.
2007-03-02 01:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
didnt quite get ur question did u say u also cheated on him? well if u did and he left why bother to get him back?
He wont stop cheating n u also wont stop taking revenge, so i'ld say move on without him.
2007-03-02 01:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow to me it sounds like if you both have cheated on each other then your both really not all that happy...Why be with someone who your not 100% happy with????
2007-03-02 01:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he went off, I'd suggest you let him stay there. Why would you want to bring him back?
2007-03-02 01:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by Artful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater - boot him
2007-03-02 01:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋