I dont know I did right or wrong, I just did it. please tell me was it a wise thing to do.?
I got good answers from here. My prob was my friend was not able to give me much of her time. I just sent her a letter saying that she needs to concentrate on other things so its not necessary that we should talk daily, we can talk once in 10days or once in a week ( we have been talking daily) I told her I dont have any problem in talking to her, I am just worried abt her studies. I left the final answer on her. If she wants to continue talking to me daily I dont mind.
Did I do right or was it a mistake? what do u think what will her a reply, please guess.
help me!!
2007-03-02 00:45:57 · 16 answers · asked by Help me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, I think you did the right thing and your gesture was a very kind one. Your friend is obviously torn between her studies and spending time with you and she has probably worried about how she copes with the time demands of both. You've taken that worry out of it for her, and said that you'll stand back and let her studies take priority. I think that's a very mature and intelligent thing to do - you should be proud of yourself.
What will her reply be? She may protest, but I think that secretly she may be slightly relieved that she will be able to apply herself to her studies without worrying that you are waiting outside, drumming your fingers, and waiting for her to finish. So I think she will thank you and be grateful.
Yes, you did the right thing. Pat yourself on the back and be proud!
2007-03-02 01:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well......you've been friends for how long?think about that,maybe you got bored of her problems or something.A friend is a friend and should always be there.I think you should have told her personally,that way you can see her reaction and what she thinks.Why don't you call her and tell her about the letter,tell her you are very concerned about her studies and that she can count on you for any help.With the letter she will get mad or even sad and will not talk to you anymore,it's worst,don't you think.Well......Good Luck!
2007-03-02 01:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by genie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing to say what you are thinking because she seemed to be rejecting you. Now, do NOT email her back unless she emails you first. Remember, she is busier than you are and needs her space.
2007-03-02 00:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing.
Now just wait for her answer. But if she is mature as you, she'll probably go along with it and agree that you did it out of her best interest and the best interest out of your friendship.
Hope all goes well! â¥
2007-03-02 00:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,do u know its quite hard 2 get guys like u. Hope she understands u well and everything goes well.Don't worry.
2007-03-02 00:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by FreeHuGs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you did well but if shes an insecure person she might take it the wrong way and she might think that you just don't want to talk to her, make sure she understands that that's not the case
xxx
2007-03-02 00:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Did I miss a previous question or something?
2007-03-02 00:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think thats good that lets her know that you really do care about her, you are showing her that by being concerend about her school work. I think she will contact you
2007-03-02 00:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by FauxDr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is all i can say i haven't a clue what you are talking about try elaborating so we have a clue what your on about and answer your question.
2007-03-02 01:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by curiouskel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't know your previous problem. How do we know if it is right or wrong?
2007-03-02 04:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by abc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋