The one guy is 18, I am 20. He is mature though and hes always making me laugh,.plus hes a little weird like me so we get along great even though we are both shy. The second guy is 20 and he is more serious, but we get along great too, hes kinda my opposite. Hes really cute and i was shocked bc I thought he was out of my league. The first guy other people would describe as okay looking but I see him as gorgeous too. You would think I would have fallen for the second guy but I think I like the first guy more. I work with them both and someone menttioned the 2nd guy in front of the 1st guy yesterday amd I got all nervous and they thought it was bc I like the 20 year old but it was bc I really like the 18 year old. As soon as it was mentioned he got jealous a little. I really dont know what to do?
2007-03-02 00:44:02 · 14 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
coworkers keep telling me I look so happy when I am around the 18 year old and him with me.
2007-03-02 00:51:37 · update #1
i think its obvious that you like the first guy more so talk to him, if it doesn't work out you can always have a go at the second guy
good luck
xxx
2007-03-02 00:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No doubt you like the 18 year old guy,so i dont see the reason why u shouldnt be dating him.There seems to be pressure on you to seee the 20 year old guy but you are down for the 18 year old so go along with him.After all age aint nothin but a number.
2007-03-02 01:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would follow my heart. If guy 20 is already jelous that might not be a good sign. Just make sure you are sending out the wrong message and just see what happens. If you are spiritual then pray on the matter and it will come to pass. It is what makes you happy in the end not what everyone else thinks!
2007-03-02 00:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by dinkylynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young, you don't have to settle down with anyone so stop feeling so pressured. Why can't you hang out with both of them? If you're looking for a boyfriend, then you sound to me lilke you like the first one. So see what's up with him. How does he feel about you? Explain to the other guy that you like him too but you may be going out with #1, you can still be friends and if he really does like you then he will understand. not to say that he will sit around and wait for you but all of you have to live your lives. Don't get so stressed out, do what your heart feels. Have fun.
2007-03-02 00:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a simple answer and it is to go out with the 18yr old. First off he makes you laugh, you consider him gorgeous while other say he is ok which means you are not just rating him on looks alone you are rating the entire package. Stick with #1 and you will be a happy girl
2007-03-02 00:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is you don't date either one of them. These guys are your coworkers. If you date either one of them and it doesn't work out you'll be left with a very awkward situation. Not to mention that since they both like you if you choose one over the other, the one not chosen will be jealous, angry, and hurt which can also cause problems at the workplace and/or make the work situation awkward or uncomfortable.
2007-03-02 01:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by ModelFlyerChick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not rare to like 2 persons at a time.
but give both some time to make it sure that one is more desirable by u. don't take desicions in haste.
2007-03-02 00:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by ravi k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should take the second guy as he looks more matured than the first one. love can be developed slowly n patiently,so take ur times.
2007-03-02 00:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date both before deciding on only one.
2007-03-02 00:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by dwayman1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all three of you work together you should try to make a decision quickly or this could be a disaster in the making.... good luck!
2007-03-02 00:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by deedee2qu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋