do guys actually mean it when they say i love you?
what ages are they when they do actually mean it?
Lots of opinions please
2007-03-02 00:34:13 · 16 answers · asked by andie i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i think is not a matter of faith, he must proves that he loves and I don't mean that you should make him tests or something, just look into the details, how he treats you, how he looks at you, how he looks at you when he says it... also if he said it after you said it, might not count, 'cuz probably just the conditioned answer he felt should should be said.
You must trust him, but not blindly, believe that he loves you, until you have a real reason not to be live in it...
Hope it helps!
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2007-03-02 00:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person dear...
Also there are guys who tell a girl he loves her and in fact isn`t...because he says the same thing to 15 different persons... They didn`t care at all they were just playing with her feelings, to fulfill their desire and then when they have had enough they just leave the person like that...
Really it`s a pity that many persons do not give the word "love" the respect it needs....
They tell it like any other word found in the dictionary and use because they believe it fits in when they want to fulfill their desires...
On the other hand there are guys who tell they love you and really mean it....it is from the bottom of their heart....
And also for age:
True love knows no age dear....
2007-03-02 08:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In high school they just want to get the girl in bed. After that a lot of times they may have strong feelings for someone just because they are the flavor of the month. For most guys they don't mean until they are at least 25.
2007-03-02 08:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by dwayman1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys say they love you to get sex. It's the easiest way to the bedroom. You've got to be smart enough to know the difference. If you want to know if his love is real, delay sex. That is, don't jump into bed with a guy simply because he says he loves you. Wait and see how he responds if you don't give in so easily. Men of all ages use this tactic, so it's not about age. It's about you being smart enough to know the difference.
2007-03-02 08:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I haven't said it unless I meant it. I would never say it just to satisfy my needs. The first time I ever said it was when I was 18 years old.
2007-03-02 08:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Hibbler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they do. Trust yourself , when he says it do you feel that he meams it? I know it's difficult to see it because we usually want him to love us , so in order to protect ourselves we don't wanna see the truth. Actually , you know the answer it's inside you. You can understand it by the way he says it , by the way he's looking at you by his voice whaen he's telling you. Don't hide from yourself and try to see what's happening....
2007-03-02 08:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,some of them I was 23.
2007-03-02 08:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by trukingpin@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,some people love just to have sex...or other people have sex to be loved.I think that there are some guys who really mean it when they say"I love you"
2007-03-02 08:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Rotten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many guys actually do mean it.. but some say it in a moment of extreme passion such as sliding down her panties, he better lie really quick then... ha ha
2007-03-02 08:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't know, sometimes they do sometimes they don't all guys are different and mature differently but a lot of the time you can tell by the way he treats you and what not.
2007-03-02 08:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by sean m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋