Could the love be gone??
2007-03-02 00:29:27 · 16 answers · asked by Alejandra2008 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well there is not just an option to your question. Sometimes the lovers become like married couple and everything bacomes a routine. You act like brother and sister , you both think that the other is someone you already <
2007-03-02 00:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jaimenys2 a relationship like that seems interesting. But 2 actually get things more, well exiting you need 2 do something different. The only reason you relationship is like a routine is because you let it happen. You seriously need 2 do something a little different with the person your with. They probably think you like what their doing. Tell them you don't like it change it up a little. Live your life the way it should be lived.
2007-03-02 08:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by ashes_n_divas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the point when many feel love is gone, in truth it is just changing and if you stick it out you find something richer, more peaceful and quietly happy. It is during this time that you learn to rely on each other because you know that the other one is reliable. If you need excitement and risk that might not be enough for you, but be careful, it might mean that having a long marriage might not be in the cards.
2007-03-02 08:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. The love can still be there b/c i just went thru that. We dated 4 times && the last time we dated for 8 months. && i was tired of doing the same old crap every day. He broke up w/ me. So, we "moved on". We both truely loved each other! && I will stand to that today! So, im with another boy now. But just 2 weeks ago my ex that i loved told me he still loved me && that he misses me. I could've went back to him, b/c i still love him. He will always have a part of my heart, but i'm happy w/ the boy im with now. TThe main reason i didn't go back to my ex is b/c of our parents. It's kinda like the Romeo && Juliet story. But fight for ur love && try some new things. Like when ya'll call each other && what ya'll do on the weekends or whatever. I hope u understand.
OBEY NO RULES && FOLLOW UR HEART && YOU'LL BE OKAY!!!
-CHARLI-
2007-03-02 09:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by 18 weeks pregnant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Start spicing up the relationship again. Take a trip, go dancing, take in a show. Start getting out more and enjoying each other's company. You've fallen into a slump, so liven things up and see what happens!
2007-03-02 08:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The romantic side of a relationship never is maintained at the same intensity and level as the stage when each of you were first enthralled with each other. You posted this in "singles & dating" so I'm assuming you are not married. Please, even if you do have feelings for this person, if they are not love and true affection and admiration, please do not marry...you both deserve much more in a relationship.
2007-03-02 08:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The excitement is not there anymore because you know each other too well now. Get some adrenalin going into your system by doing something wild with your partner and gives surprises.....love needs nurturing....The feeling will eventually dies off if it is left unattended.
2007-03-02 08:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Lavender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Routines aren't bad if they aren't boring you. Also you must think of what you used to do, the different things. Find out what he likes and surprise him
Good luck!
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2007-03-02 08:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Damn Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You become more of friends and don't do it as often. The love isn't gone, you just get a bit lazier.
2007-03-02 08:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by hello 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your now getting to the good stuff. Just member to keep it fun and fresh from time to time, don't take each other for granted. Keep loves bright light burning.
2007-03-02 08:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by cream city chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋