She is Chinese, and I know it is less acceptable in her culture, but is there any way I can make her forget about it? ...by the way, I am 21 and she is 25...
2007-03-02 00:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend is 4 years younger and I love it !!!
She needs to not focus on it. It's other things not your age that brought you together. It will have nothing to do with your relationship in the future either if she stops making an issue of it. Only she has the power to change her attitude and forget about it.
2007-03-02 00:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by cream city chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her would she like her life better without you or not? Remind her that you love her and respect her and are there for her and only her. If your age is going to be such a deep confounded issue for her that is the one thing you don't have the power to change and move for her liking.
Bottom line: Tell her if she wants to keep you attract more luck and put her age back or don't think about your age so darn much or evil, jealous spirts will whisk you away into the arms of another woman who doesn't care about your age, just the fact that she is loved, honored and respected by you.
2007-03-02 00:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will find that if you really care about each other that age doesn't matter. my boyfriend is three years younger than me. he's 19 and i'm 22, we've been together for a year since he was 18. If you love each other age doesn't matter. you are both adults so its not really a problem. sometimes you do feel like people judge you for being with someone younger. If the age difference was reversed would it be a problem? talk to her about it and find out exactly what it is about the age gap that bothers her.
2007-03-02 00:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by jadescorpionbite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then Tell your girlfriend to go find someone her own age, since age is such a huge deal for her.
Do you really want to be with someone who bags on you for something that is completely out of your control?
Perhaps it is time for you to find someone who will love and appreciate you no matter how old you are.
2007-03-02 00:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 08:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either tell her to get over it or the two of you need to move on. You will always be younger so there is nothing that you can change.
2007-03-02 00:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by dwayman1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older you get the less the age difference will matter.
2007-03-02 00:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she your "girlfriend" if she thinks you are an inappropriate person?
REMIND HER - that she somehow found you suitable. Also advise, her that is is perfectly acceptable in her new culture.
2007-03-02 00:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 21 then it's no problem you need to explain that to her
2007-03-02 00:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my girlfriend are both chinese and she is older than me too...well...it isnt exactly encouraged by our grandparents but all worked out in the end...age has nth to do wif love...remember that
2007-03-02 00:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Seraph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋