i am 15 yrs old and in highschool, and my ex boyfriend dumped me 2x and he wants me back andi don't know what to do?
2007-03-02 00:17:12 · 16 answers · asked by Im the best 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could wear knee and elbow pads for the next time.
Or just buy a trampoline.
Surely there must be some other guy you could give a chance to other than this confused yo-yo.
Come to think of it, going it alone would be better than being this guys girlfriend.
2007-03-02 00:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get angry and hormonal at times and can say some pretty mean things and do some pretty stupid stuff they don't actually mean to do.. especially teenagers..
But no matter what age you are if you truly liked (i know love is a strong word at that age) that person a hell of a lot than you will feel really bad afterwards and want to make up for it.
Different men will do different things in this situation, inexperienced boys will try to hook back up with the girl,
A real man would face up to it and say something like, "I just wanted you to know i am sorry" if anything at all.
And remember just because someone says this to you does not automatically mean that you should take him back... remember there are approx. 3 billion other fish in the sea XD
2007-03-02 08:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Bethayn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, do not take him back. He is on some sort of power/control/ego trip. He's probably telling his buddies how he has you wrapped around his finger. He can dump you, and you'll still go back to him.
Don't give him the opportunity to do it a third time, that's just wrong.
There are plenty of fish in the sea, and not all of them are like your ex-boyfriend, believe me.
Good Luck
2007-03-02 08:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was 15 i also was involved with a boy unfortunately we went through the same thing that you have. We kept breaking up and getting back together. I was vulnerable and he took advantage of that by being with another girl while he was with me. With that he hurt me bad enough that we were never together and he has been with the other girl for 1 1/2 years now and i have moved on myself. Don't fall for the same trick. you fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me, Fool me again and i am the fool.
2007-03-02 08:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by ali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're awfully young and to be dumped twice by the same guy has to hurt. I think you'd do best if you moved on. There's either something wrong with the relationship or he is very immature and doesn't handle disagreements well. I'd be getting on with my life without him.
2007-03-02 08:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's probably playing games. using u when he needs u and dumping u when he doesnt. he a sad guy or maybe, he might think ur a good friend but not g/f material or maybe he misses u but wants to dabble else where too. make sure ur 1st best and not 2nd coz women dont stand being 2nd best and neither should u!
2007-03-02 08:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive had this same thing happened to me and wat i did was find out if he went out wit anyone after he dumped me. Then i sat down and thought about how much i liked him! But wat u really need to be concerned about is *is he thinks of u as sum girl who will always say yes when he asks*! Basicly i told the guy tat he has alot of stuff to prove to me cuz he dumped me once and he could do it again.
And the guy will either:
*Stop talking to u and leave u be
(Which means he wanted u as a rebound or didnt really want u at all)
or
*He will try and prove to u tat he wants u *as best as he can*
(By takin u out on little dates and cute stuff like tat)
IF u ever need anything else email me @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-03-02 08:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The things you go through in a relationship are still there even after a break your feelings are still strong for that person
2007-03-02 08:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he had had sex with you and he really enjoy himself during your sex stuff that might be the reason he want you back. to be candidy with you he did not love you. if he loves he wont ve dumped you for the 2nd time. for more one on one chat you can get me on 2348038417557 or salakosunday@gmail.com
2007-03-02 08:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by The AnswerMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was confused about his feeling...
i have the same situation,i broke up with my borfriend but a week later he still claim he still love me..i was confused
i was deeply hurt but i still love him...
being apart is pain..and lonely..
As he still has feeling for u..it may be he juz realised he really love u.. ALOT!!
and u seem part of his life..
Listen to your heart..
if u r still fond of him..juz love him as your heart do..
love him as u wish he will love u..
(i dont think he meant to wound your heart)..
Believe him..if u still love him..
trust him..
love him..
and..
forgive him..
2007-03-02 08:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by OnLy a dReaM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋