What would you go with if your 25?
HEART and choose to be with your best friend love soulmate known all your life but takes time to commit to marriage?
OR
MIND and choose to be with a guy who wants to marry you since he knows your family,social climber.
Choose 1 and why best answer 10points.
2007-03-02 00:11:47 · 13 answers · asked by youngtwoheartz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heart until i get to know if marriage was going to happen with my love soulmate if yes ill go with heart otherwise
Mind if i get to know hes not going to commit marry propose soon i would go with my mind say yes commit marry someone who will do it.
Heart always but with it use the mind too.
2007-03-03 23:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd choose heart because marraige is a form of binding two bodies as one because they love each other. Getting married because you don't love that person but only because there are certain things he can do or provide for you is like living a lie since it's not what you truly feel.
But Anyway i made an essay once and i've still got here maybe u should read it.
Love: Heart vs Mind?
This battle that takes place, it doesn’t seem to come to an end. The heart and mind never seems to agree. The mind knows true facts of any given situation. While the heart, knows what it feels. Neither seems to win the battle. Although common sense may sometimes triumph, the heart crawls its way back to fight.
There are times the heart feels that tender feeling we call love, but the mind prevents and tries to resist what’s happening. Even though the mind may reign at that moment, love still comes knocking on the heart every once in awhile. There are times the heart feels that intense feeling of tender affection and compassion but the mind will always find facts around the situation. Facts that mean both can't be together. Not now, and if one is truly honest with oneself, probably not ever. Yet the heart and mind still fights for victory.
Although there are times harsh thing happen, the heart may get scars and wounds in the fight but it will come back with great power like it has already won a thousand battles. The mind may have won that battle, but not the war. No matter how much it falls. No matter how helpless it is. It still strives to get what it wants. These incidents leave the confused mind to wonder. How much love can the heart hold?
This baffling incident never seems to be understood by the mind. As much as it struggles to find the right answers to this mystery, the more complex it seems to be. The mind can sometimes see that the heart being in strife but love always finds a way to come back and heal the wounds and scars on the heart. No matter how dark it may seem to be and how little light love can show. It still stands out. Like if you put a candle in the middle of a dark room, the most noticeable things will be the flame of the candle, which is the same as the warm feeling felt in our hearts.
The mind never seems to find the precise answer to the puzzling mystery. Measuring how much love it holds and pain it can take seems to be endless like the battle which never ends. On the other hand, the heart knows that love never comes with a pain-free guarantee and sometimes can seem to be unfair. As much as the mind denies love will always come since its part of everyone’s life.
Love can never be learned from a book, only through experience. This is why the mind can never understand it. The mind cannot even define it. Love is something that will never be understood by man. But I thank God for the gifts and the
Possibilities that love can bring.
2007-03-02 08:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Love or hate? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heart. Without heart, there can never be true love. You'll never be happy being stuck in a relationship like that especially in the long run. Love means to take each other's strength and weaknesses, through everything. Mind wise? He might not be wholly devoted to u so that defeats the purpose of being together. You wont have the fuzzy feeling if being loved as much
2007-03-02 08:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mind.....a lot of marriages end up that the spark goes and they dont fancy each other so it would have to be about someone who was to look after me or we were on the same level..i dont want to struggle all my life and if he hasnt got money and you fall out of love what else do you have??? In an ideal world it would be follow your heart but in reality it never seems to end happy like that.
2007-03-02 08:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heart. Always go with the heart. You'll be happier that way. So what if he'll take longer to commit to marriage. Just enjoy every minute you're together. Your happiness, that's all that matters.
2007-03-02 08:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by Gunner For Life! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you dont go with your heart, there will always be a piece missing from you forever. You cant get that with the social climber
2007-03-02 08:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost all the girls will say that "they follow the heart" but don belive it man! it is a rare thing with my experience.. Many girls see the background and money, language and nationality and then select...But very few are there ! i hope i will get one of those girls for me! I will devote my whole life for that girl... all the best for u too man!!
2007-03-02 08:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by ee2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd follow my heart. why? he knows you, you know him. he accepts you for who you are, and vice versa. Maybe he's taking his time to commit to marriage because he wants to be sure on what he's going to do.
2007-03-02 08:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Confused Loner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one I would choose would be the one I love and who loves me back. Nothing can compare to being loved and being in love. Not money, social status, careers, family, possesions..............NOTHING!!!!
I would give up everything to be with the one who truly loves me.
2007-03-02 08:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEART- i alwayz wud go wit my heart, commitment 4alot of people takes tym, it sounds as if ur already made up ur mind tho..
so wot if sum 1 noz ur family, more interesting if its sum1 new, social climber? dat sounds lyk sumdin in a c.v., no offence...
heart heart heart....
2007-03-02 08:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by LUCY LU 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋