The thing is my bf had told me twice that he realy loves me but he was drunk and he never says it when he is sober he would only say that he realy likes me alot me when he is sober
2007-03-01 23:36:25 · 17 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do tend to be more truthful when you are drunk because you lose your inhibitions. However drunkness can also skew your perception of people. So while drunk you wouldn't tell someone you hate that you love them - you might feeling lovingly towards people who you only like normally. I know I've felt I like some people more than I normally would when I was sober.
So either he does love you but is too afraid to tell you when he is sober, or he likes you a lot but alcohol makes him feel that he loves you. I would wait until he told you he loved you when he was sober before drawing any conclusions
2007-03-02 01:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by LMS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man can lie...drunk or sober. If he tells you that he really likes you a lot when he is sober, he means it. If he tells you he loves you when he is drunk, he just might mean it too or at least is less fearful of his feelings when he is drunk. Alcohol just gets rid of inhibitions it is not a truth serum.
It is far more important for him to say it when he is stone cold sober, and I am sure in time that will come about. The most important thing is how he treats you and that you two are happy together. The rest will come in time.
2007-03-02 07:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a drunk man never lies. maybe when ur b/f is sober he is too shy 2 say he loves u
2007-03-02 07:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if he only says it to you when he's drunk and can't say it to you when he's sober then he does not really love you that much to say it
2007-03-02 07:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you haven't been around your share of drunks. Alcohol has a way of making someone feel okay with stretching the truth. some of the biggest bs stories I have ever heard have seeped from the lips of the intoxicated!
2007-03-02 07:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person and the situation. Sometimes people have things to say that they dont have the courage to say sober. I do think that sometimes the truth comes out when you drink.
2007-03-02 07:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by Josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true at all!!!! Some people actually lie more convincingly when they are drunk, Or they may actually believe themselves at the time, Or they might be in a blackout, in which case they will not remember what they said.
2007-03-05 13:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by debjb1953 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be completely true but alcohol does loosen a person up and seems to give them the nerve to say things they normally wouldn't.
2007-03-02 07:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa 78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course a drunk man lies, he could hook up with the ugliest chick on the planet, and tell her she looks good. have you never heard of beer goggles?
2007-03-02 07:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by otsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because when a drunk man isn't drunk he can lie beacuse he can think about it but when he is drunk he can't think about what is he saying so he can't lie. so the answer is YES!!
2007-03-02 07:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by mariam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋