We have been "together" for quite some time, but all these time, she treated me like a mere normal friend, or sometimes, like we never even met. When I don't start a conversation with her through IM, sms, or calling, she will never bother to start a conversation with me.
I have expressed my feelings to her and how I feel about her, but everytime when we communicate it is as if she is "expressionless"................. Then when I asked her wether she likes me or not, she wouldnt want to answer....
And another problem is, she is desperate to not anyone know about our relationship, so she doesn't want me to approach her when there are people around...... Please Help Me
2007-03-01 23:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by Bradian M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she seems embarassed to know you..are you in high school? if so, she may be one of those clicky, trendy, superficial popularity seekers who care more about others opinions than what she truly wants. Lay an ultimatum on her, either be my girl or not. Dont let her play these mind games with you or convince you your any less "cool" or deserveing than she is
2007-03-01 23:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Nooka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "girlfriend" sounds like a *****. Don't wait, don't even try to talk to her, just dump her. You deserve better than this. She isn't your gf if she's embarrassed to be seen with you. If she won't even tell you she LIKES you, how could she ever LOVE you? I guess you could always just stop trying so hard to communicate with her. See if she really cares, if she doesn't call you or try to talk to you in a week, then just end it. Either way you do it, either your relationship has to drastically change for your sake or just end it now. I don't understand why you would want to be with a person like this anyway.
2007-03-02 07:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sa♪ah ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she ashamed of you over something you should ask her what's her problem. It does not make any since that you can't approach her when people are around. That's if you wont to keep her but you should dump and move on to the next there's always room for more
2007-03-02 07:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve better! people in love should want to shout it to the world, not hide it. You should be treated better and more important by her. Why would she want to hide it? I would ask her what her problem is (though not in that way) and if she ignores it or makes a lame excuse and does not change, get yourself someone who appreciates you and makes you feel wanted, special, and loved.
2007-03-02 07:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by crackermelons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first it sounded like she was emotionally unavailable, but reading on, I would come to the conclusion that she is embarrassed to be with you, or she is into someone else. I would dump her and find someone who is truly available.
2007-03-02 07:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by N I K I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would dump her she sounds like a scum bag, my girl friend loves me 4 who i am and lets it be known that we are together
if u love someone there shouldnt be anything to hide
good luck
2007-03-02 07:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is embarrassed of you it is time to get rid of her. she obviously doesn't care about your feelings at all. if you think that it is bad now think of a couple of years how bad you are going to feel.
2007-03-02 07:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump this girl right now.
2007-03-02 07:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mate with out spelling it out to you to bluntly,she dosn,t like you the same way,,move on
2007-03-02 07:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by matty60 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop her like a hot cake she act like a big hole
2007-03-02 07:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by laundryman18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋