Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last month when she sent me a mail. It was abt her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I replied her but what do i do nexT?She once said i have a special place in her heart...What does this mean and what do i do?
2007-03-01 23:14:38 · 10 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look sweetheart, as much as it hurts right now, all she wants is to be friends....but who knows what the future holds eh....who knows?
Just try to be cool about stuff & don't be pushy.....you could always write an email just saying that you're here when & if she feels the need to talk about anything....If I were you I would just cool right down & just come over as wanting to be friends, nothing else...if you push & push you'll just fail to get any response at all.
Having a special place in someones heart doesn't mean that they want you or anything, not want you more than a friend anyhow. Treasure the friendship part or you may end up with nothing at all.
2007-03-01 23:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she's trying not to hurt your feelings by telling you you have a special place in her heart. I don't think she likes you as much as you like her but she doesn't want to hurt you either. She wants to be just friends. You want more and she's either not ready or not interested in taking the relationship beyond where it is now. She doesn't want a relationship beyond your current friendship.
If you are not hearing from her except occasionally, I would advise that you move on with your life because it sounds like she has moved on with hers.
Date some other women. Enjoy your life. If it is meant to be, when she returns home to live, it will happen then. In the meantime, don't sit around waiting to see if something might at some future date happen with this relationship. Keep up your friendship with her if you want and send her emails now and then about what is going on with your life. Don't bombard her with love letters. You'll just push her away if you do but an occasional mail about your life and what you're doing is fine.
2007-03-02 07:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Faye H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she doesnt want to lose you as a friend, but isnt thinking of you as more than friends right now...she doesnt seem to know know how to say that w/out hurting your feelings. If she was as into you as you are to her, she'd have said so already.
As far as what to do next, you have to determine if you can deal w/just being friends for now w/her. If you can, great - who knows what may happen a few years down the road? If you can't, then cut the contact now and move on. Good luck, whatever you decide..
2007-03-02 07:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by lma0814 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have a couple of options open to you. One being that you can go about your life and talk to her whenever you can. Another is save up some money and pay her a little visit on a holiday. There are more options available to you. Anything you choose I'm sure will work out fine so long as its what you want, just do what you believe is best. There isn't anything specific you HAVE to do.
2007-03-02 07:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by eRi' Zanu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship between male and female is weird becoz at times it gets to a place where u start feeling something for the other person and signals of affection may be misunderstood l feel you...let this GO..2 things she may have feared to hurt u and decided to go without saying or maybe she is not ready to confront her feeelings give her time let her look for you...MOVE ON...its hard but thats it she is saying she only values you as a friend period!
2007-03-02 07:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by judie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she has moved on to another place in her life and she is trying to let you down easy. Having the special place in her heart means you will be a nice memory. Sorry but it's time to get on with your life too. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-03-02 07:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry and be calm dear. If she is made for you, she will be yours somehow, someday...so, just let the love flows to you, don't run for them, becoz anyhow, god knows best!! LOVE will be yours when the time comes.....
2007-03-02 07:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by Isabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just wants to be friends. If she wanted to be more than friends I am sure she would be contacting you more.
2007-03-02 07:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems to have become uncomfortable... move on with your life, cos if she was interested, she'd have been in touch long before now...
2007-03-02 07:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you to take the next step,,if you sit on your bum and wait it may never happen
2007-03-02 07:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋