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And by time, I don't mean a minute or an hour or a day. I mean MONTHS. Like practically 6 months. I live in a country I sort of despise, I go to a school I don't think I belong in. I hate it so much I've tried to actually kill myself. The only reason I'm holding on is because I actually can get out of here during summer. That's sort of around 4 months away. And, I just need to find something that will help me hang on til then. Please help. I'm desperatee here. I just feel awful a lot of the time, and I just don't know what to do. Any help would seriously be appreciated. Thanks to all in advance.

2007-03-01 22:48:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Community Service

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I know how you feel! I am in a similar situation. I don't know where you are but if you count down the days till summer it will go really slowly. The best way to make time go by is to be really busy. If you can get a job or play a sport. I know it can be hard finding things to do and that makes the day stretch out so long, but just remeber that it is possible to be happy again, no matter how bad you feel. You should talk to you're family or friends about how you feel and if you are really depressed you should get counseling, even though you may think that's won't help, it will, and its not worth it to go through you're life trying to make the time dissapear, I know, I do that too, what you need to do is find the things you love in life, even if you hate your country and your school, you love your family or your friends or your favorite book or your favorite place or movie or anything, there are things even in your country that you hate that are beautiful and just don't forget that, that is what life is about. And remember even if it seems like no one else feels as shitty as you do, lots of people do, but that doesn't mean life is ****, and its not your fault, things will get better. It sounds like you are in high school right now, that is a rough time of life, I know that's a cliche but its true. Just remember, things will get better! I really hope that you feel better and that my answer helped, even if it didn't make much sense.

2007-03-02 06:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by banga89 1 · 0 0

I am in sort of a similar situation. I'm at a school where I don't have any friends either. All I do is work at a miserable job to pay for school and go to class so I don't have any time to even TRY to make friends.
But if you have time, try to research some clubs or groups online that share your interest (sports, beliefs, hobbies) even if you've never acutally tried it before and you are just interested in it, join anyway. I don't know if you are spiritual of not, but praying and reading religious or inspiration words could help. This probably sounds cheesy but you could find inspirational phrases that give you hope. Write them out on sheets of paper and place them in a spot where you will see it everyday. Sorta like "fake it until you make it". If you read the hopeful sayings enough maybe you'll actually get hope that things will/can be okay until you can leave.
I wish you the best.

2007-03-03 12:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by xtraluvly03 3 · 0 0

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2. It can be used to gather information.
Suppose you like soccer, you could find info on the net
3. But if you want to regale yourself amuse by watching funny videos and jokes
4 The best is yet to come.
You can contribute to others welfare by answering to their queries.
We provide online expert medical opinion and you could be part of the team.
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Take heart sing a song
and talk to me if you find no one to turn to.

God be with u

ashok

2007-03-04 10:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Ashok Koparday 2 · 0 0

Love it or hate it - the time WILL pass. Your attitude is all that you can control, and a good outlook really does make the rest easier. Good people will gravitate toward you and you will be able to make a difference to those around you. As my husband says when we're late to something, "We can be late and upset, or we can just be late..."

2007-03-02 15:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by tracymoo 6 · 0 0

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