what would you do if you found that your partner is having an affair but you realy love them
2007-03-01 22:03:25 · 9 answers · asked by Percy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RUN, don't walk to the nearest exit. Once a cheater always a cheater. If you stay with this person you will always know the kid is not yours; everyone else will too. The child will find out. You won't be fooling anyone. Many 'blended' families end up in divorce. Do not put your name on the birth certificate. Do not marry this person. Many nations consider a child born within a marriage to be the legal child of the father, you will end up paying through the nose. Money you should be spending on your own biological children. You will have to pay for someone else's child forever: Child support, education, inheritance, vacations, clothes, food, shelter, diapers, toys.
Consider this women. She is NOT loyal to you or this wouldn't have happened. Don't waste your Pearls on Swine.
2007-03-01 22:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Alea S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your partner needs to make a choice--now, not later. If you really love her, and she stops the affair, the fact that the baby is not biologically yours should not stop you from loving her or the baby. Hopefully, the baby is yours--that would make things easier--and the other guy would have no excuse to try to hang around. If the baby isn't yours, I really hope that your partner has not told the other party--that could create so many problems for all of you--and the baby!!
2007-03-01 22:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can help you with this question. Only you can. No matter what answers you receive here, ultimately, it's your choice. Follow your heart.
At this point, i am sure you're confuse and not sure how to handle. Otherwise, you wouldn't be asking the question here.
Most people will say, is that once a person cheat on you, they will cheat on you again. ON the other hand, if you give these people a chance, this incident is just a one off situation.
Good luck.
2007-03-01 22:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by denizen251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is truly sorry, and shows remorse and it WAS just a mistake, then, stay with her, though it won't be easy, especially if there's a baby in the picture. But if your willing to support her, then you shouldn't leave her.
On the other hand, if you really can't forgive and forget, then you gotta make the right decision by breaking it off with her, so that both you and she can move on with your lives
2007-03-01 22:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by La Genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd leave her. sorry but seriously she broke your trust...and though u love her and it's hard to leave, u can't stay, especially now that she has a baby with another guy. she obviously doesn't love you back.
2007-03-01 22:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. if m.. i will accept her.. cuz i really love her.. humans make mistake and we cant jkudge them based on the mistakes they had done.. and if i truly love her.. or him... means that i love all her flaws and bad things together.. so.. i will kinda forgive them.. and accept them... but its all up 2 u...
2007-03-01 22:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by jzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave them. there not worth it. once the trust has gone in my opionion your relationship has gone.
2007-03-01 22:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave her, if she is seriously preganant but is not mine and we are/were together. Then its no my prob. anymore...its hers
2007-03-01 22:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Robert T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break-up with them.
2007-03-01 22:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mighitman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋