My ex broke up with me 1 mth ago after 8 mths together.
After 5 mths out of the blue she said she was unsure about us. I asked why, I said that and I thought we had loads in common & the spark was there, she agreed, but said she wasn't sure. Within 2 hours she apologised & said she had been down & it made her irrational.
Everything was good again for 2 mths then again said she wasn't sure. We had a long chat, we both got upset & she said she was really sorry and hated when she was horrible to me. She said that she felt that she held me back (because she has chronic fatigue & is often ill) & that I could do better. I said that was never the case and never will be. I suspected she may be depressed as there is a history of that
6 weeks ago she said she "wanted to end things as her feelings had changed over a short period". She admitted she was depressed (her dr agreed!)then took it back 1 week later saying us was the cause of her being down & ended things.
What do I do??
2007-03-01 21:47:03 · 7 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are obviously a very caring and thoughtful man, a dying breed. I'm not sure whether you should restart a relationship with your ex, but just let her know that you are there as her friend to offer advice or to lend an ear when she needs to talk. She doesn't sound as if she wants to be in a relationship right now, don't put yourself in a position where she can just pick you up as and when she feels, keep a safe disctance but be there to support her.
Good luck mate.
2007-03-01 21:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be she was depressed and needs to sort through some things before she can give of herself to someone else...Remember, in order to be in a serious relationship with anyone and really know we love them , we must first love ourselves. It seems she has a lot going on right now so time may heal all...
2007-03-01 21:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She could have a chemical imbalance and that is something you don't want to deal with. I say just let her go someone better will come along. "Living well is the best revenge"
2007-03-01 21:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by ARM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should go and find yourself some one else. Sorry to be harsh. She needs to get her head together and find out what she really wants.
Go out and have fun and enjoy life.
Don't look back.....
2007-03-01 21:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is let her go and not look back and if she come around and wanted you back just say no and going on
2007-03-01 21:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes a normal flaky female MOVE ON.
2007-03-01 21:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by dcam47 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Run.....fast! Sounds like major PMS to me!
2007-03-01 21:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Roaddogg 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋