my boy friend of 6 years, lately is sleeping all the time day and night, he has been sleeping now for 2weeks and then tonight he gos out, dont know where. we have six kids and am doing it all my self, when i ask him to help his to tired, but tonight he gos out. he dosent go to pub or clubs,and rarely drinks..i love him dearly but he wont tell me whats happening.
2007-03-01 21:24:02 · 4 answers · asked by goolie06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you suspicious that he could be cheating on you? You could have someone follow him to find out where. It's not wrong to have someone do that---you deserve to know what your guy's up to and if he's cheating on you he's not going to tell you.
2007-03-01 21:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A constant need to sleep, communication failure, loss of energy to do everyday stuff, sounds like your boy may be suffering from depression. Supporting a big family can be really hard. Maybe he feels that he has no time to do other things except chore and routine. What are his goals and longings in life, is he on the path to achieving them or has has he abandoned them. You have to talk to him, the sooner the better. He might end up needing a psychologists help, however, therapy starts at home - you have the right to demand certain things from him but be supportive and loving when you confront him.
2007-03-02 05:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boyfriend of 6 years and 6 kids? Hell he has his cake and eating it too. Tell him to tell you the truth about today and tomorrow...what are his plans?
2007-03-02 05:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him an ultimatum... it's either he says what's wrong or you are going out with him. period.
2007-03-02 05:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋