OK.. I know time heals all wounds...get out and keep busy...meet new people..hang with friends......... BUT we lived together and when we broke up, I moved to a new city AND in with my parents. 2 strikes. Sooo now I am looking for a job all the while mad at him because I have to start over. Not that starting over is bad.. BUT I don't know anybody or know of any clubs. This is a very very small town and I think the people here go to Walmart for their highlight of the day. Kidding but that's how small this town is. Soooo now what do I do? All I have is time to think about him. TV, books, nor the internet is a distraction. Ok people help me!!
2007-03-01 21:15:30 · 7 answers · asked by Kimbo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well done for trying to move on! I think maybe you should look in the local paper and see if there are any gyms or health centres near by. Starting up some exercise as a hobby can be a great way of channelling your energy into something and take your mind off of him. There maybe classes of some sort you could take ie, keep fit or swimming or dance this will help you get out and meet new people. Or see if there are any evening schools around and book yourself on a course and learn something new.
Good Luck.
2007-03-01 21:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to the local university and take a class, stop dwelling on him that part of your life is over. Move on, set some positive goals for yourself. Your self worth should not come through a relationship or some man. You need that all on your own in-order to have a healthy relationship. God bless****
2007-03-02 05:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why you were together. Love, right? Well, the Love is over, gone, kaput, fini, out the door. No Love? No reason to think about it. You have someone, just ready to meet. you. You're keeping him from being happy. And that's just not right. Go meet him. Stop making him wait!
2007-03-02 05:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY and You Can taking your time and go back over your interest in men..to see if it just the type of men that you are attracted to that is wrong.
2007-03-02 05:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rent some sappy and good movies, this is something you have to go through, so get it out of the way,if you don't then you won't feel good later on. and when you're ready, it will find you again.
2007-03-02 05:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a long time race to get the most tired, then have a sleep, when you getta think him, just let uself feel tired out in physical
2007-03-02 05:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a boyfriend online and get out of that dead end town
2007-03-02 05:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋