my name is kittties, am 20 and i believe i could be addicted to sex. 1st time i had sex was when i was 18 and it was with my 1st boyfriend who'se now my husband, but ever since i discovered how it makes me feel, i want more and more!! I think of sex every now and then , I think of him alot, am honest. When he comes home from work all I can do is throw him in bed and start, sometimes he says I might have a problem, or is it, that, when it comes to intimacy i worry about pleasuring him and i forget about me, i feel happy to see that he gets release from me, but i just cant find ways of how to please myself, is hard for me , idk why. But I do know I think of it every minute just like KORN says A.D.I.D.A.S
2007-03-01 21:11:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds more like you have intimacy issues. If you truly were addicted to sex you would only be worrying about pleasing yourself and 'getting off'. Talk to a shrink about it if you can or do some self help books.
2007-03-01 21:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by brian c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you are an addict i think you are just trying to show him you love him very much and believe that if you dont give him the sexual pleasure that he needs that he will find it some where else. I'm The same way but if i were you i would find away to pleasure your self because the love for sex between you to can end like if you were to just pleasure him and him not to you then he gets used to it he wont ever do it for you, Ive found that shower heads work really really well lol or try a vibrator and have him join in.
2007-03-01 21:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_angel180 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an illness or sex addict, in some magazines that I saw, it says that you just havent gotten the high pleasure from your husband, it is just like male release their sperms, woman also had the high pleasure term. But it is usually slower than the male. Meaning it needs more time for a woman to reach its high pleasure. There are many cases that are woman are left there still high pleasure while the male had already released his sperm, wanting to sleep. So you might try some to ask your husband to touch the most sensitive part of your body, the name that is called ''X point'' to reach the high pleasure more faster.
2007-03-01 21:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by SKyLaR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So when last have u had an orgasm?? cause it sounds like u pleasing him, but he cant please u.
its common that once u start u just cannot stop!! but soon that will fade &u learn how to control the urges.
As for pleasing urself, try &abstain from sex for awhile(i know its gonna be torture) but that will just make u crave more, highten ur senses, &when u do have sex again-explosive
&self satisfaction: invest in kinky toys, lubracant all the way.
(I witnessed a friend of mines behaviour before she was a virgin then after-which said once u pop u just cant stop)
2007-03-01 21:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds more like you have intimacy issues. If you truly were addicted to sex you would only be worrying about pleasing yourself and 'getting off'. Talk to a shrink about it if you can or do some self help books.
2007-03-01 21:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by William C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down a little. explore what you like best some more. achieving mutual orgasm is not as easy as others make out. This guy loves you he's married to you it will work out. Don't mistake sex for intimacy. Be kind to yourself and do a little work on your own self esteem rather than on techniques that get him off.
2007-03-01 21:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you, you are not a sex addict you are every poor boy's dream and every rich man's pray. Your husband is young and has no idea what's normal or what's right or wrong sometime its just how it is when you are young. And I asure you you will not be like that for ever no woman ever is so enjoy it as much as you can while you can.
2007-03-01 21:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 yrs is a very tender age my dear but u can as well disclose ur sexual ability now at least to ur husband. so.......i dont
think that you are an addict i think you are just trying to show him you love him very much and believe it or not, if you dont give him the sexual pleasure that he needs that he will find it with some other girls.
2007-03-01 21:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it sounds like u r addicted to sex. Good for you. It is the best you can feel, have it pretty much whenever you want, so long as ur hygiene is good I would say yes, keep thinking about it if that is what you like, doing it as much as you can or like and remember: every piece of *** you pass up is one piece of *** you will never get.
2007-03-01 21:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't an addict! The average man thinks about it every 8 seconds!
2007-03-01 21:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋