If I give my g/f all the freedom she wants and stuff and when it comes to my attention that she grinds on random guys when she goes to a club and I get bothered/irritated/mad that she would do that. Why does she get defensive about it? Liek shes gettin mad at me for being botherd that she "grinds" on random guys that arnt her b/f at clubs. I trust her completely but theres a line i believe. I wont let a chick grind on me at a club. I wont even go to a club without my g/f. Why does she get mad at me for being bothered by it?
2007-03-01 20:59:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She likes the convience of having you there to keep her out of a situation she may not be able to handle, but she'd much rather spend time with other guys. Next time she grinds on another leave her there on her own. Don't even mention it to her just have her bags packed when she gets home. She's keeping you around until she can find another guy she likes better. You don't have to put up with her bad behavior, and it's time you let her know that you have a right to be angry.
2007-03-01 22:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think 80 to 90 percent of people in clubs are there just to have fun with someone random.. all the drunk girls and guys dancing and nobody is giving a crap who is whose boyfriend/girlfriend.. so it would be fun.. makes you feel free.. try it.. you might actually like it.. go by yourself and dance with a random chick.. your not gonna marry her or build a serious relationship, just dance and goof around be yourself be expressive when you come home you'll sense a good feeling of freedom.. thats probably why you shouldnt always go to clubs with your girl.. because she's looking to have that same feeling of freedom.. she probably thinks you're an over protective jerk i assume thats why shes mad..
2007-03-01 21:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Zeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Ignorance (the second answer) on this one.
2007-03-01 21:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to wake up...... if she does all u sayin she does.... u need to let her go n she gets mad when u bring it up its only cause she knoes shes not doin somethin rite..........shs usin u as her safety blanket ...... shes havin her fun ... wat i dont get is... why arent u with her when shes out ?? u both have issues......... ur insecure and shes usin u...........shes dancin around wth random guys dude.. she doesnt need u!! let her go
2007-03-01 21:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by I V X 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must trust her, girls want their man to trust them... there are 2 answers with your question, maybe she is just annoyed because of your jealousness or is it because she's guilty about it...
2007-03-01 21:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋