My girlfriend finished with me on Sunday. On Monday,she said that we needed space apart,& for me not to contact her for 2 weeks (she said 2 give me time 'to get over her', and she said, maybe we can be friends, if 'she' wanted to? The thing is I still like her, and am kind of in a 'either she wants me back' mood, or 'i want nothing from her again'.... Any ideas? Should I leave it after 2 weeks, and see if she contacts me? Or contact her around 3 weeks, asking how she is? I still love her, we went out nearly 18 months!
2007-03-01 20:48:35 · 5 answers · asked by Rejhaven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ride it out or the 2 1/2 weeks then give her a call or visit her at her work.
Maybe you could send her flowers saying you still love her. "Can we talk"
Have you considered she may have someone else which is why she broke up with you?
Sorry to out that in your head, but it''s better the devil you know than the one you dont.
2007-03-01 20:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by kriskros54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a little space-- see what happens in two or three weeks. If she doesn't bother to contact you at all, then it is probably not worth you going out of your way to contact her.
Take it from me-- the last thing you want to do is act desperate to get her back. At least pretend like you are moving on and doing just fine without her and see what happens.
Good luck!!
2007-03-01 20:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ohwhyme? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i was in the same situation as u last year. Havent contacted mine since a month ago. Well i sent her a mail few days back and already got a reply. The thing now is, do u love her? If u do, i suggest u reply her. If u dont reply her, u'll regret as u wait for her reply. Dont play the waiting game, it waste time! Treasure what u have now!
2007-03-01 20:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Fr3e@K3D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that "maybe we can be friends" is an attempt not to hurt your feelings
cud be an oter guy shes interested in i guess
2007-03-01 20:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by hans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. she's too iffy in that definition.
2007-03-01 20:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋