im a 30 yr old guy im in love witha a 23 yr old girl thing is shes with some1. it started about 4 yrs ago when we both liked each other but never had the courage to do anything about it i was shy and so was she. i told her how i felt about her for the 1st time last year but i was very drunk and she told me she felt the same and always had but i had to tell her when i was sobber but i bottled out of it. now shes with this other guy please give me some good advice its eating me up
2007-03-01 19:57:41 · 11 answers · asked by g s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're 30 and you probably think this thing can wait. you have waited for four years and you waste your time fearing rejection. why the case? the girl probably has been waiting for you for four years and felt the need to move on. if you were 60 and looked back at now, would you have regretted it? act now, or move on.
2007-03-01 20:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if it was the other way round, a girl wondering whether to have an affair with a married man I 'd say leave well alone, and the same applied here.
No good pining for what might have been, you did tell her, nothing came of it, so now no good messing it up for everyone.
2007-03-02 04:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another girl, she already with somebody, wait till she decided to finish her relationship with this guy. What if you are the bf right now and she have this thing with other man, what would you do? You never know if she really inlove with you or just infatuation, I don't know most people like conflicated situation. Just get your friends Jack Daniels and JB, maybe they will show you the way.goodluck!
2007-03-02 04:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fear is so wrong in this case . u should have talked to her long time before but ok its never too late ...tell her what u feel and that u have pushed this feeling down for a long time . if she feels the same great , if she doesnt , well at least u wont live with the feeling "why i havent told her "
good luck and tell us what has happened ;-)
2007-03-02 04:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her... do something!
Don't just sit in front of the computer and ask for advise... Win her back!
2007-03-02 04:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by BB2791 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and chat to her about it tell her exactly whats on your mind, but be prepared she might not tell you what you wanna here.
Good Luck!!
2007-03-02 04:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by RACHAEL B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had your chance .... just let her go .... be fair to both of them . if you are in a relationship would you want somebody stealing your girl ?
2007-03-02 04:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her, youve got nothing to loose
good luck
xxx
2007-03-02 04:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it, no point keeping it to yourself, its only going to make you miserable
2007-03-02 04:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Alik411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GO FOR IT AND DO IT.
2007-03-02 04:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by ENIGMA VS MYTH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋